Monday, April 4, 2011

Click Your Heels

The Land Of Oz
in
Kansas City
"Those magic slippers will take you home. click your heels"

Good Morning it's time for coffee
from my lanai
as I think of my recent trip to Kansas
and oh boy coffee is good.

The trip was great,
the
folks at Comfort Keepers and those I met there
even better!
Stephen Bright, owner
of
Comfort Keepers Ks
and
Janet Hessenflow, Executive Director
Crossroads Hospice of
Kansas City MO
the largest Hospice in the area!
Serving:
KANSAS, MISSOURI, OHIO, PENNSYLVANIA, TENNESSEE GEORGIA,OHIO 
Janet has been the CEO of
Crossroads Hospice for nine years.
She is lovely and had to leave during the day,
but
had returned to meet me at the reception that followed after hearing from her employee about
Dr Sherry E Showalter
and
to talk with me about speaking at their annual
retreat coming up in June.
We had a lovely chat, a handshake and a hug
as
she let me know of their "satellite offices and told me that they are
the "largest hospice in Kansas".
There motto?
"We Do More to be There When You Need Us Most"
I like that, and she appears to be a woman
that makes that motto a reality.
One one piece of their literature for others it says:
"EXPECT MORE FROM US; WE DO"
To that I say: Bravo Crossroads!
Her employee Karen
was also connected to
Comfort Keepers back in its beginnings as well
and touched my heart as well,
so again
the connections and the circle continues!
Crossroads hospice colors are Green
and I thought it coincidence that she and Karen was dressed alike! I like the fact that in their
brochure it stated
"What makes us different? Quite simply it is the idea of MORE""
Now that's my kinda idea of thinking and of hospice as well!
So, bravo Crossroads, I hope to join you at
your retreat
and to fuel your staff
to talk about the pioneers, the challenges, and
the ultimate of change while
being passionate about doing MORE!
maybe everyone in Kansas needs to wear
Red Shoes!
Yep, everywhere I looked there were folks that were just outstanding and magical...
I clicked my heels
and it was just remarkable
the quality of people I ran into
those professional care givers
in Kansas
who were there,
each extending their hands,
their hearts
to welcome me
to share a story
and
to extend their
heart felt congratulations
to
Stephen Bright and Linda
co-owners
of
Comfort Keepers of KS
on
celebrating 10 years of providing care
in the Kansas City Area
to its community
by
providing care to those
needing care.
Stephen and Linda are not just
"co owners" to a successful business
but
they are also son and Mother
who are business partners and friends!
And they have an
OUTSTANDING STAFF pictured below!
It was no surprise that this staff also had their
very own
tornado for the day
and that Linda
was donning an outfit as
"Auntie Em"
as she is
"RN extraordinaire"
and mentor to all!
Stephen Bright was
the
'Lion' sporting his
very large
"badge of courage"
and of course
is a man who is admired by his staff
and it also appears has won the respect of local vendors who were there along with the community of most.
Stephen is a warrior of gentle spirit and
is "hooked in" to social networking that one has to just shake their head in true amazement wondering if he ever sleeps!
Of course
I got a tremendous kick
at the end of the night that he took me back to my hotel, remembering to "take off his ears"
as the lion,
but as we entered the lounge of the
Embassy Suites
(all of which were very kind to me there)
we entered the lounge,
when a woman sitting there
said to him,
"Hey, that's a great tale !
Stephen then exclaimed,
"OH NO, I FORGOT TO REMOVE MY TAIL"
We both got a grand laugh as the
courageous lion then
took off his jacket and removed his tail
for cocktails
and laid it on the table!

Karen and I at the reception>>> Notice the Green? Another who works at Crossroads HOSPICE and who believes in MORE!  Dratz, I didn't notice if she was wearing Dorothy's red shoes though!  But I did get the opportunity to meet her lovely husband, and I did get a wonderful hug from her, and to be welcomed in a fine fashion by her and so many others! And I am most grateful for that!

AND
I did get to see some old friends as well!
"Why anybody can have a brain. Back where I come from we have universities - seats of great learning - where men go to become great thinkers. And when they come out, they think deep thoughts, and with no more brains than you have." Leareerow

"You want a heart? You don't how how lucky you are not to have one. Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable. and remember my sentimental friend, that a heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others."


Of course then I met my favorite witch
(remember Wicked?) who is also a
Comfort Keeper! I just loved her and she did so wear her hat so well!
Oh my I met so many there including a lovely woman who is an Elder Law Attorney Karen Weber,who I hugged and hugged for all she does for others! Karen is a bright and beautiful woman and quite a friend to Stephen and Linda as well, I do hope to see her again next time invited to KS.
We just had a wonderful time we did!

"I'll get you my little pretty and your little dog too"
Jeepers, Gypsy and Patches were just so tickled to have me at home, quite a bark festival of greeting I got I must tell you
although they are now having a long morning nap, now used to me being here once again
like I never left them!

Yes, Glenda was there, she too a Comfort Keeper and a "hoot" to be certain,
but don't know how she escaped my camera!
BUT
then again, she has never been the same since the house fell on her sister I'm thinkin!

And as for Dorothy, we all know how sweet she is, and hers were the first shoes you saw,
she too a little sweet comfort keeper
and
she made her own shoes,

"If I ever go looking for my heart's desire again, I won't look any further than my own backyard, because if it isn't there,
I never really lost it".
PERHAPS THE MOST PROFOUND QUOTE OF
THE AGES.


To end out a wonderful time of meeting some marvelous Professionals and speaking there,
I was entertained and hugged
even having a song dedicated to me
by "OJT&B" Jazz group
BUKEKA and this "hot jazz band"!
Bukeka let the audience and me know
That she was dedicating this song to
Dr Sherry
which got my immediate attention
and even got me to the dance floor beside her
as she sang a fabulous rendition
of Aretha Franklins'
R E S P E C T!
It was "off the hook"
and
I thank you, I was honored!
Blessings and continued success to you
all!
So my dears,
there you have it
Monday morning reflections
and
my best wishes
to all you warriors out there!
they sure did roll out the
yellow brick road
for
Dr SES

Blessings on the winds
for the beginning of a new week
and
reflections of my last week
waiting for the sun to shine
and
time for the next cup of coffee!

The fire is burning this morning, the embers are hot
Sage is beginning to fill the air
with thoughts for all who enter here,
near and far away
I am thinking of you today.

Please hold COB aka Mom
in your heart
as she heads for NC to the Cancer specialist
as once again
Cancer has been detected on two places
and she will be now
facing once again
the gut in knots
and
all that comes with it
until we know she is safe.

Walk In Beauty,
DRSES
author
of
Healing Heartaches, Stories of Loss & Life














Sunday, April 3, 2011

SUNDAYS BLESSINGS

Sunday Morning
Peace being sent to you

Good morning Warriors
May beauty surround you
May all that you need be yours
May The Creator bless you in ways unimagined
and
May The Rainbow always touch your
shoulder!

FOR:

Oprah? Are you reading me here?
If you want to help
those who are lifting the Fog
above is the link of how you can spread the word to your friends, family,
to
Oprah, Jay Leno, Ellen G, Whoopi, MC HAMMER,
JayZ, Emmy Lou Harris, Garth Brooks, Wil I AM, Taylor Perry (who I just love)
and all you out there in the world
and
our President.
You can also
donate by paypal or credit card
a dollar or ten or a thousand.
YOU can make a difference
cos
when this movie is made
and when it gets the attention
and
when Walter Littlemoon and Jane
attend the
best independent film awards
"then those celebrities will come out
they will then take a stand"
for
our First Americans
and
then
We may just see
that someone cares!
Until then
WE WILL SHOW THEM
WHAT WARRIORS OF GENTLE SPIRIT
CAN AND WILL DO.
STOMP

The fire is burning brightly, the embers are hot.
Sage is filling the air, and the drumming is about to begin.
For all of you, I give thanks
and
so it is good!
WADO

Prayers and thoughts are being sent to
Tim
his family and fellow officers
in
Chattanooga Tennessee
Tim an officer, a man of family, friends, community
doing what he loved,
serving his community with honor and pride
killed
at the hands of others
leaving behind those who now
are traumatized
are left to wonder how/why/
as they
now struggle for answers
and
for
HOPE in understanding.
Tim now joins with other brothers and sisters
standing
to welcome him
to
"The Thin Blue Line"
on
the other side.
"Thank you Tim for your service"
Blessings to those who are standing
in the grief and sorrow,
May you find comfort in knowing
he is but a heart beat away
now watching over you
with those who have gone before him
all of which
have welcomed him
to that sacred line
of service
and all
who stand proudly
on
"THE THIN BLUE LINE"

For: Karen, Paul and Little Calvin, prayers of healing and thoughts to you all. Kiss that little one and know that he is in the Creators arms and the hands of those skilled to help and to heal him.
For my dear family of choice, we are with you, Stand Strong now> Laura and Mitch strength and prayers of healing ways,


For those at Wounded Knee continued healing of spirit as they move through this day


with the beauty of spirit and gentle winds to caress their spirits and heal their souls.


To those who have served and are serving this great Nation, I thank you and your families.


We BELIEVE IN YOU.




WE THANK YOU. WE WANT YOU HOME SAFELY.


We are together in prayer, in thoughts of all that is needed to remind you we are WARRIORS...


Remember that others opinions of you, are just that > their opinions, not your reality!
 "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." Dr Seuss






We stand by you on the journey beside you, along with some powerful angels both here and in the next place, the other side.
May you find comfort in knowing we are with you always:
AND for that I give thanks, and so it is!
I'll stand by you: NOW sing Patti, tell em for me...click below, you will see me talkin to you with each movement, each octave...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vU_JL-f0AN8&feature=related


FOR:


Stephen Bright and family, Walter Littlemoon, Jane, Laura, Mitch, Jenn, Chirs, Mary, Taft, Martha Deaver, Morris, Rose Brick, The Baitinger Family, The Yaslowitz Family, The St Petersbug PD, Congresswoman Gabbie and her family, those in Arizona,
Dahlee in NJ, Judy Kelley, beloved husband and family, Jennifer, (now being watched over by her beloved husband and child), Norma, EE, Little Cub to CJ and Angel eyes Jack, Daniel, Dave, Cindy and Steve, Marty, Sweet Pea and Pie Face, Florence,


2 Wolves and Jinx in SD,


Judy W and her 4 sons up there in New England, Cherokee Wick, Benni, Gayle, Jonathan, Great Aunt Effie, Marilyn Warren, Ilene, Tweak and Chris, Hannah Sherabow, Pam C. and family, Susan S., Angela A., Nancy W, Sue G, Kelly and family,Mato Oyate Kola, Susan Brouse, Cindy and Stevie, Kim, Olatz, EVB, Guin, Yiva, Mary, Sandra and family, Christina Hellen, Dotti B., Susan and Greg, Amy, Becky and Barry Long, Christina, Matt and children, Aaron, Lisa and family, Freda, Linda Katie, Pat D, Tink and Mitch, LITTLE Ben, Jerry, Trish, Barb, Anastasia, Mary, Rylee, Lindsay, Ann, Sarah, Ruth, Johnny, Bobby and the Tucker Family, The Spraker Family,Kenny H, Michelle, Sandy, Addie and family in Canada, Sandy, BraveHeart, Rowena, Chris, Robyn Elizabeth, Jean, Duke,Rowena, Chris, Baby Robyn Elizabeth, Diane Smallze and family,


Officer Crawford of St Petersburg, The Kocab Family, baby Lilly Nicole Kocab, The Curtis Family, Tarpon PD, those serving here and there in Uniform... Those now walking The Thin Blue Line, (far to many joining that line recently across our Nation),
Mylee, Mikey and family in DC, Jack M & Janis in OC, Stephen, Stuart Wittel on and his parents Sandy and Stuart, Lavie Coltrane and her loving family, Pat in NC, Andrea Gasse and family here and in New England, Ali and family, Randy and Winnie in New Mexico, Jill Wheaton L, Dr Peter in NY, Dr Rev Bev, Irene M, Bernice, Eileen and family, Dorothy, Angela, Elijah, Ode, Linda M, "Southwest VA", Vicki, Matthew and family, Chris, Lovie, Pedro and Our adopted family in BRAZIL, Our North American Black American Bears, Lily NOW HAS take the bear family out of the den, the are crawling trees and exploring their world out there in the woods! Those little cubbies are sure making noises and funny on that site!
YOU can see them and hear their sounds at http://www.bear.org/


Blessings to all the folks at the NABC, WRI,


AND for:


Joseph, Cathy Madden, Nathan, and her family., Cindy in NC, Liz, Lee, Molly, Joanie, Jude, COFA,Judi, Matthew, Natalia, Matt, Mark's family and many friends , Pat, Irene, Kevin, Dr D, Deb, Randy, Dr B, Isabelle, Kelsey, Sabrina , Charlie and family, Jean, Julie, Rhonda, Victoria, Mildred, Andi and family, Faith, Denise, Jim, Tom, Joey, Shelby friends and family, Judi, Phylis, Joyce, Gina, Tonya, Beverly and Family, Janeth, Melissa,Virginia, Stacey, Elizabeth, Nita, Gary Siegal, Adrienna,Brian Mawbey, the Boyan Family, Jean R and friend Christy Rider, Victoria and hubbie, Stephen, Gayle, Steph, Chris, Erica, Eileen, John, Mindy, Jack, Susan Werth Becken, her brother Mike and family, Craig James Lightfoot and his family, Kenny, Audrey, Ed Saner, Patty Crowley, Bennie, Gail, Jonathan, Moe, Beverly, Dennis, Peter, Trish, Cynthia, Heidi and her family, Kathy Knights family, Edith Vaughn, Candy, Cynthia, Jenn, Eve, Edith, Jason, Karen, Linda, Joyce, Belinda, Jeanette, Jennifer,


and ...


(Feel free to let me know if you would like to add your/or a friends name to our circle)
Please lift these friends family and loved ones of these people in your hearts and prayers ~
YOU can join u today, you can step up, STAND UP, and can choose to to join with us.


STOMP with great HOPE and HAPPINESS!


Know that there are some powerful warriors on this page and in the next place along with some Powerful angels ~


and together we have banded together with the energy, love and support to facilitate healing and hope for so many along their journey...


and for that I hope you feel great connection in times of sorrow, pain, isolation, knowing we are all connected in the great circle of life~


The fire is burning brightly, the embers are hot and the sage is drifting into the air, with prayers being sent to all in the prayer bowl and many who are not. You know who you are and you are being thought of ...




That is the HOPE in Healing Heartaches ~
Walk In Beauty,
DRSES
http://www.drsherryeshowalter.com/


Saturday, April 2, 2011

Our marvelous Brains

The Dogwood

Mornin Mornin
and
Coffee is on!
Light is broken the skies
as I sit here thinking sure is good to be home!

Nana's girl Olivia
takes the field today
as
she will run like a wild pony
and defend the goal
on her
soccer team
like a little bulldog!
with those sweet ankles and feet
swift
and the mind
and
heart of a warrior!
STOMP
For this I give great thanks
and
so
it is beautiful! 

Heard from my friend EE and son
out
there in the wild west of Colorado
yesterday
the journey now
complete
and
the best news of all
they have found their new home
their offer accepted
and
now
A Dream Turns To Reality
right here
as spring is upon us
<>
A time for
NEW BEGINNINGS
Dreams do come true
when the plans are laid,
and
you work the plan.
Tony Robbins once said,
"LIFE IS EITHER INSPIRATION OR DESPERATION"

Congratulations friends
on
working the plan
and
seeing
Dreams turn to realities
out there in
Those Rocky Mountains!

Well
you know it's always about the
extremes in life
once can't see to just have a celebration
and joy
and
dreams realized
without
someone who has power in
a
US government system
coming into your day
and shooting your spirit full of holes
and
making an otherwise great day
go to hell in a hot minute!
Also heard about a story yesterday
that put my body into a hot boil
on behalf of someone
that I have to
scratch my head and wonder
about
once again
systems
and people who sit behind the desk of
computers and determine the fates of those who
are dependent on Medicare/Medicaid
for needed services and
are truly
dependent upon those services
for their "activities of daily living"
and
quality of life.
Remembering that our brains process information
received at lightning speeds
and that
what is said and done to us
then affect our very nervous system which has a tremendous impact on our bodies.
So
those bodies that are already ill, chronically or periodically then suffer greatly when receiving
ugly or hateful information
(particularly when rendered by those in power to help or assist us in the helping fields and those in power to continue our benefits for continued care)
So then
because of an "eligibility" worker not listening
and
it being a Friday probably,
or
someone peeing in her cheerios
she decided to be
and
"made a conscious choice"
to be unprofessional and ugly in her phone conversation with someone about transferring her care to another agency for care,
and in the process of all of this
she
HALTED ALL BENEFITS
rendering this person hysterical and in shock
and scared out of her mind
that she had now no coverage for medication
and medical attention.
Did I mention
we are talking a "heart patient" here
and
a Cancer Patient
dependent on a relative for care???
We are all aware of the impact of
stress on illness
and
ONE PERSON
working for the
US government
has done this
and
oh boy was I "hot" under the collar and
appalled.
And yes,
it will be attended to, yes, it will be rectified.
BUT
the trauma that was inflicted
the pain that was caused
the harm that was done
the stress that was put on the body of a good person who is entitled to the benefits
the body that now must catch up
the messages that were processed by the brain
and
then sent throughout the system

INEXCUSABLE

Shame on Lady
and
you have certainly set yourself and your agency
up
for
AN ABUSE CASE
which is what I shared with this person.
AND
I pray that once again strong and recovered
from the actions
that she and her family
will follow through with it.

Our marvelous brains
our ability to cope in
good and bad stress is remarkable
but
make no mistake
stress is stress
and the body reacts swift as lightning
to stress.
It takes time to recover from
really wonderful events
and
also
to events of trauma
as described above, and to events of sudden, perceived or real threats of impact, illness, death, or grief.

Take BEST Care of yourselves dear ones.

Believe in the wonder of you, the magic of your dreams,
WORK YOUR PLAN.

never ever ever let anyone diminish you or your dreams. Hold tightly to your personal power,
in any situation.
YOU ARE YOUR MOST PRECIOUS RESOURCE.


tHIS is a great day to share this profound video once again... You will probably want to see it more than once. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UyyjU8fzEYU

Where ever you are today
Make this a day to be proud of who and what you are.
STand with dignity, stand with pride of YOU
and
Know this
DREAMS DO COME TRUE

The fire is burning, the embers are hot, with thoughts and prayers on the wind for all in the prayer bowl and all who enter here.
STOMP

Walk in Beauty,
DRSES
author of
Healing Heartaches, Stories of Loss and Life


Friday, April 1, 2011

APRIL FOOLS DAY!

PICTURE OF ME ON THE
YELLOW BRICK ROAD IN KANSAS

aPril Fools!!!
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OK
So I was in Kansas
thanks to the awesome
folks
of
Comfort Keepers of KS City
and
then
I had the honor
of
speaking to a
REMARKABLE GROUP
OF
PROFESSIONAL CARGIVERS
...
and
then I had the delight of hearing
the soothing and soulful sounds
of
Bukeka and jazz musicians
as
Comfort Keepers hosted guests of the event
and celebrate
10 years of providing care
to those in their communities!
The theme?
THE WIZARD OF OZ!


I clicked my heels
(probably more than 3 times)
in Kansas
and
wouldn't you just know it...
while in Kansas
clicking my heels
a
Tornado
hits Florida?

There's no place like home
There's No Place Like HOME
There's no place LIKE HOME
AND
So here I am
Safely home and
for that
I give thanks
and
so it is!

Thank you Kansas
Thank you
Comfort Keepers
Thank you
to all that I met there
"Your BesT is GOOD ENOUGH"
and
oh my you were the best!

Walk In Beauty
DRSES