Wednesday, August 10, 2011

So Long Travers City, Good Morning Grand Rapids MI

Traverse City
Wallyeye, salads
the
HOLIDAY INN
Deb Brown, Kelly, Scott
and all the staff there
"off the hook fabulous"
and
then
the
Professionals that came to the
PESI/CMI seminar
were
just the best ever!
What a lovely welcome
and
absolutely awesome day was had
as they worked and dug deep
to restore the passion
that fuels them in the hard work being done
there.
4 of these wonderful people drove
....
DROVE 4 HOURS to be there at 8 am
to spend the day
and
I was honored by all.
Thank you
Professional psychologists, nurses, therapists,
trauma workers, Hospice workers
of Michigan
for all you bring every day
to those you provide care for!
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I was on the road at 4:15pm
for Grand Rapids
in that sweet red Mercury
as I reflected on the powerful day that we had spent together,
the sights, sounds and loveliness of
Traverse City, the home of the cherry!
CHERRY GARLIC BUTTER?
yep, and
I bought me some!
Don't have a clue what to do with it,
but
I now have some!

One last look at the waters,
and
off I go!
Grand Rapids bound I was...
US 131
Beautiful scenery, and I was thinking it was 2 lanes all the way,
but
all of a sudden it opened to 4!
I arrived at the Radisson about 6:30pm
and
checked in to a riverfront room
with a big ole' bed that was calling my name!
BUT
had to go check out this river first
Grand Rapids
My view for today!
Then it was off to the restaurant
that two hour drive had me weary, hungry
and
ready to see what they are known for here
and to my surprise the
filet/lobster was their signature and on special!
Yippee I am thinking
and while waiting,
I decided...
and a few texts, return a couple of phone calls,
and
while talking to EE in Colorado
with my earpiece in
as I sipped the first of my drink...
She told me a story
that tickled me soooo good
that I burst into laughter
almost choking to death!
As I realized that folks turned and looked at me as I became hysterical
looking as though I was talking to myself
and was lauging so hard I had tears running down my face,
and
exclaimed
"now that is just wrong"!!!
The waitress ran over and asked me
"what is wrong Dr Showalter"!
I then just completely lost control,
and assured her I was talking to a real person and showed her my ear piece...
But I must tell you,
EE, you really got me on that one!
Still grinning as I recall  both your story
and
sitting alone in a restaurant spitting my drink
and howling at the same time!
Guess sometimes it just pays to have a real phone in hand!
Ah
laughter is the best medicine and the best sound in the world
and nothin like a good friend to make you laugh
and ease the stress of a long day
or anyday!
After a great meal, a fabulous day, and a long drive
it was time
for a good nite's rest

and that bed was just awesome.
The only problem was this:
I was awake every two hours because of the temperature in the room! Try as I might to make the proper adjustments, it just did not seem to work. I tell ya, what a bed, but what a rotten night with the "ups and downs" as the temps just kept me from a bone crushing sleep!
However
I am most blessed to have had a bed to sleep in, a place to lay my head
free from threat, in safe surroundings
thanks to those
men and women who are in uniform
who are fighting to maintain
our freedoms in lands we cannot understand
the value of them being in.
Cuz Angie's friend Matt is on his way home from yet another tour and we all hope he will return safely, and that he will embrace his children, his wife and family, friends and will be healed by their loving care and laughter.
Thank you Matt for your service
ALONG WITH
ALL THAT ARE SERVING
OUR COUNTRY.
We want you home safely,
and
blessings to all of you
the families and friends
who are loving them at a distance.

It is now time for me to roll, it is time to set up the room with the hopes of another great opportunity to speak to folks
here as I look and see the sun has risen
and
it's time to get
Swagga ON

The sage is lit, prayers on the winds today to all who gather here,
and
to Mom who is having some outpatient surgery today, please hold her up,
along with the many who are walking difficult paths out there,
and those who are doing some hard work.

Walk In Beauty
DRSES

YOU are all that you need to be to do more!
Enjoy each breath...




Tuesday, August 9, 2011

gREETINGS from Traverse City Michigan!


I arrived in spite of
Delta!!!
After getting my fancy dancy Avis
rental SUV (RED Mercury Baby)
with a fine sound system
that drives, "fine just fine",
and
a GPS to tell me how to get to
the
HOLIDAY INN !
I pulled into a parking lot
and almost fell out of the car!
HERE is my view as I turned left
into the
Holiday INN on
Front Street of
Travese City MI
I'm thinkin cuz Angie was wishin she was my chauffer this trip and that it was she laying on that beach!
I was "amazed that here as I turned into the parking lot, I was viewing SUCH BEAUTY OF THE WATERS!!!
Fantastic welcome
I am thinking,
so I parked the car, and casually walked to the beach before checking in!
Then I was greeted by two young women,
BRITTANY AND KAYLA!
Both professional, both lovely,
and
both a fine representation of
the Holiday Inn
as they welcomed me!
They let me know that the beach actually was wonderful fresh water, led into
Lake Michigan
and was there to enjoy!
Darn, I did not bring my bathing suit
and
did actually have all afternoon I could have been out there on that beach!!!
That will teach me,
should I be invited back to this enchanting place.
The view from laying on my bed in the room and looking across at the mirror!
Now isnt that just amazingly beautiful?

I also had the opporunity to meet
Kathy L. Maruskin,
 the Director of Sales and Marketing after a stroll on the little boardwalk looking at the waters edge. She was delightful and had a lovely bouquet of lillies on her desk, all of my favorites too.
She said she was from the big city of Detroit and had moved here to a little place out in the woods with five acres and everyone thought she was crazy leaving the city,
but this was "home" and she loved it!
She spoke about how you can't just walk in a grocery store without spending thirty minutes talking to folks they are so kind and friendly here,
and her passion and love for this place was obvious along with her job here at the
Holiday in of the West Bay
615 East Front Street
Traverse City MI

I'm planning on feasting on their signature dish of
white fish tonight, she has told me it is the best anywhere
and they are known for it!
So I told her I would be letting her know tomorrow!!!
But then wouldn't ya just know,
spirit leads you to be where you are supposed to be;
so
I'm outside sitting on a bench looking at that most marvelous view and a woman by the name of
Sharon
is sitting beside me.
We talk a bit
and
she tells me she and her husband are here for their anniversary
from
Detroit.
And before you know it,
she is telling me of her beloved daughter who developed
BREAST CANCER AT 24
and
died two years ago July
of
BREAST CANCER.
We talked a bit more
and
then she asked if I had any of my books with me,
I told her before the day ended out
I might lose a pound with as many trips
I was making to room
318
getting books!
We both laughed
and
told her I would be right back.
As I entered the hallway I heard my name
and it was Kelly beckoning me to come and meet
her "boss"
THE GENERAL MANAGER
OF
THE HOLIDAY INN!
I ran in and shook hands
with a wonderful woman
named

Debra!
and said, "I'll be right back"!

After signing
Healing Heartaches and hugging Sharon from Detroit and talking a bit,
I was then
treated to a cocktail by the GM and Kelly of Catering and Sales
and introduced to the entire staff that was working it seems. All of which I enjoyed meeting, and thanked all for their warm welcome and hospitality.
What a lovely time we had!
I also learned that Debra's son
Is a Veteran,
Joe Brown, I thank you for your service!
He also was a NFL player for the
Seattle Seahawks...
Now how bout that for getting me some
"cred" from my godsons?
LOL
The ladies informed me
that their restaurant is known to have best ever
"pan seared fresh Wallyeye"
and
that I must have that for dinner!
SO I DID!!!
OMG!
It was
"off the hook delicous"
with a cherry butter topping to die for"
I mean outrageously good ...
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Then for a walk on the little boardwalk and
a sailboat in the distance and the waves hitting against the sand!
Ah,
life is good this evening,
and
I am here 1400+ miles from home
and
have yet to imagine what today holds!
So far,
Traverse City is a place to see and the folks I've met are
5 STAR!
I will keep you posted as the day progresses
and I marvel at the beauty of the waters edge
and walk out just to put my feet in the water here
just cos' I can!

I was also honored to meet a man on the plane coming here, that was a Veteran of the Marines. He too lives in the Tampa Area. It was a joy watching him on that IPAD of his, and I thank him for his service.
Then on the last leg of the trip (that was almost missed thanks to Delta)
I was again honored to meet a man who is in law enforcement from Texas.
I was truly honored to speak with him, he was coming here for a training, and was with his family.
A Kind but strong man, I wish him safety in his work, and joy in his life... We are blessed to have him walking the walk keeping those in Texas safe.

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and now a moment to reflect and to
honor:

A man that has known me all of my life
died suddenly Sunday with his family bedside
after traveling to southwest Virginia to attend his high school reunion and then falling seriously ill and becoming hospitalized there.
My Mom was invited to come to the hospital as she and he have known each other since they were teenagers; it seems he recognized her voice and gently squeezed her hand twice in recognition.
All efforts to help him were attempted.

Joe John Thompson,
 of Louisiana
a man I loved all of my life and particularly loved as a little child and one who taught me to shoot a bow and arrow, and if memory serves me my first weapon!
A handsome devil, who was spose to wait til I grew up to marry me! A young man who protected me from things that were percieved threats to a little kid, and also very real threats as well,
a guy who grew into a man,
and
one who I remember fondly.
\ ' /

He will be missed by all who loved him
and
he will dance in the lights of heaven as those who loved him now will welcome him to the other side.
Dance on Joe John, your work here is completed.
My thoughts and condolences to his family, friends and all who loved him.


Walk In Beauty Friends,
don't waste a moment, it all goes by so quickly.
DRSES
author of
Healing Heartaches







Sunday, August 7, 2011

Good/GREAT Day To All and monday


What a day
 I sure hope it is more than you could ever dream
and
all that you hope for.

"If you hear a voice within you say "you cannot paint," then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced."


-Vincent Van Gogh

What it really means?

Whenever those ole  negative thoughts find their ways into your mind, conquer it immediately, jump on it right away
and
STOMP
MOVE ON, Get on it, Charge ahead in a persistent manner towards whatever it is you may be trying to accomplish, whatever it is you are dreaming, wanting,
working the plan…and you will.
STOMP

"Nothing works unless YOU DO"
[Maya Angelou]

Blessings to all who gather today,
all those who are serving our country and our streets
and those
here, there and everywhere.

For
Shannon, Nick, Reagan, Sandy R. Carol, Stephanie, Marnie, Geri, Chris, Matt,
those in Oklahoma City, in Tulsa, In Ft Worth, Dallas, Ike,
Isabel, Teresa, Janelle, Patricia, Susan, Karen, Laura in Yuba City CA,
Crossroads Hospice and those who care out there working and walking the walk, Perry, Clayton, George, Janet, and all in green!
Rick, Calley, Ron, Rebekeh, Brenda, Becca, Audrey, Gabe, Dena, BEth, Lill, Jay Hanson, Jennifer, Beth Jett, Huntsville AL, Sheri, Wendy Reese and family, The Boy Scouts of Dora AL, Cam, Sandy, Toby, Edith Vaughn and family,Susan, Greg and Kyle Korabek (Landon Korabek on the other side now), Stephen Bright and family, Walter Littlemoon, Jane, Laura, Mitch, Jenn, Chris, Mary, Taft, Martha Deaver, Morris, Rose Brick, The Baitinger Family, The Yaslowitz Family, The St Petersbug PD, Congresswoman Gabbie and her family, Dahlee in NJ, Judy Kelley, beloved husband and family, Jennifer, (now being watched over by her beloved husband and child), Norma, EE, Little Cub to CJ and Angel eyes Jack, Daniel, Dave, Cindy and Steve, Marty, Sweet Pea and Pie Face, Florence, Jeremy, Dennis, Darrel, Greg, Leroy, Rebekka, Carly, John, Diana, Crystal, Karen, Janet, Callie, Lorie, Laura,

2 Wolves and Jinx in SD, (
http://www.twowolvescreations.com/)

Kelly and family,Judy W and her 4 sons up there in New England, Cherokee Wick, Benni, Gayle, Jonathan, Great Aunt Effie's family, Marilyn Warren, Ilene, Tweak and Chris, Jen and Bian, Ericka, Shannon, Hannah Sherabow, Pam C. and family, Susan S., Angela A., Nancy W, Sue G, Kelly and family,Mato Oyate Kola, Susan Brouse, Cindy and Stevie, Kim, Olatz, EVB, Guin, Yiva, Mary, Sandra and family, Christina Hellen, Dotti B., Susan and Greg, Amy, Becky and Barry Long, Christina, Matt and children, Aaron, Lisa and family, Freda, Linda Katie, Pat D, Tink and Mitch, LITTLE Ben, Jerry, Trish, Barb, Anastasia, Mary, Rylee, Lindsay, Ann, Sarah, Ruth, Johnny, Bobby and the Tucker Family, The Spraker Family,Kenny H, Michelle, Sandy, Addie and family in Canada, Sandy, BraveHeart, Rowena, Chris, Robyn Elizabeth, Jean, Duke,Rowena, Chris, Baby Robyn Elizabeth, Diane Smallze and family, Patti and family, The Korabek Family and friends, The Gasse Family and Friends,

Officer Crawford of St Petersburg, The Kocab Family, baby Lilly Nicole Kocab, The Curtis Family, Tarpon PD, those serving here and there in Uniform... Those now walking The Thin Blue Line, (far to many joining that line recently across our Nation),

Mylee, Mikey and family in DC, Jack M & Janis in OC, Stephen, Stuart Wittel (back from his 4th tour as a fighter pilot of the US MARINES inAfghanistan) and his parents Sandy and Stuart, Lavie Coltrane and her loving family, Andrea Gasse and family here and in New England, Ali and family, Randy and Winnie in New Mexico, Jill Wheaton L, Dr Peter in NY, Dr Rev Bev, Irene M, Bernice, Eileen and family, Dorothy, Angela, Kamryn Elijah, Ode, "Southwest VA", Vicki, Matthew and family, Chris, Lovie, Nancy, Pedro and Our adopted family in BRAZIL, Our North American Black American Bears, The Windcross Convservacy and those beautiful Spanish Mustangs known as "pocket ponies"...

AND for:
Anne, Jim, JADE, Joseph, Cathy Madden, Nathan, and her family., Cindy in NC, Liz, Lee, Molly, Joanie, Jude, COFA, Judi, Ken, Matthew, Nick, Matt, Mark's family and many friends , Pat, Irene, Kevin, Dr D, Deb, Randy, Dr B, Isabelle, Kelsey, Sabrina , Charlie and family, Jean, Julie, Rhonda, Victoria, Mildred, Andi and family, Faith, Denise, Jim, Tom, Joey, Shelby friends and family, Judi, Phylis, Joyce, Gina, Tonya, Beverly and Family, Janeth, Melissa,Virginia, Stacey, Elizabeth, Nita, Gary Siegal, Adrienna, Brian Mawbey, the Boyan Family, Jean R and friend Christy Rider, Victoria and hubbie, Stephen, Gayle, Steph, Chris, Erica, Eileen, John, Mindy, Jack, Susan Werth Becken, her brother Mike and family, Craig James Lightfoot and his family, Kenny, Audrey, Ed Saner, Patty Crowley, Bennie, Gail, Jonathan, Moe, Beverly, Dennis, Peter, Trish, Cynthia, Heidi and her family, Kathy Knights family, Edith Vaughn, Candy, Cynthia, Jenn, Eve, Edith, Jason, Karen, Linda, Joyce, Belinda, Jeanette, Jennifer, Patti, Sandy S, and ...


(Feel free to let me know if you would like to add your/or a friends name to our circle)

Please lift these friends family and loved ones of these people in your hearts and prayers ~

YOU can join us today, you can step up, STAND UP, and can choose to to join with us IN YOUR HEARTS AND MIND AND SOUL.

Feel deeply each beat of your heart knowing that we are here only for this moment and life is fragile, oh how we need to remember that/

We have right here right now to make it right with all living things knowing we are all interconnected n the Universe.
WE HAVE THIS DAY... words and actions get imprinted on the heart, on the nervous systems of those we meet, greet and those we love.
KINDNESS is something that we all can do more with;
it is never ever out of style, out of vogue
and its benefits are tremendous.

Enjoy this day as we enjoy the beauty of a butterfly that graces us with its presence on a fabulous day!

Wado!
STOMP with great HOPE and HAPPINESS for this day it is yours, and for that I am grateful, aren't you!


Know that there are some powerful warriors on this page and in the next place along with some Powerful angels ~ and together we have banded together with the energy, love and support to facilitate healing and hope for so many along their journey...
and for that I hope you feel great connection in times of sorrow, confusion, isolation, and happiness; knowing we are all connected in the great circle of life~


The fire is burning brightly, the embers are hot and the sage is drifting into the air, with prayers being sent to all in the prayer bowl and many who are not. You know who you are and you are being thought of ...

That is the HOPE in Healing Heartaches ~

Walk In Beauty,
God Bless the USA and her people.

"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty."
Maya Angelou
Walk in Beauty,

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Saturday, August 6, 2011

SAturday Morning

Time for the
Reggee and Steel Drums
This is COB and Kam
trying to play the Steel drums
at
The Thirsty Marlin

Saturday Morning Coffee is on
and
looks like a sunny day here.

They of course did NOT sound like the steel drums of Bob Marley on those drums though when they were hitting those steel drums!!!

But we had a fun time with them getting their
"sway and swagga on trying".

ON
another
note
"We All Love LUCY"
and
she would be 100 years old today,
and
I have to say,
"happy birthday LUCY".

Morning is coming easy today,
and
easy is good, it is comforting, and it is
lovely.

Today, I'm thinking the thoughts here
are about
HAPPY.

Getting into your happy place, no matter the stretch to fit find your way there today. To find your way to happy for the day, for tomorrow and the week ahead,
just for YOU, and for those you will encounter in the coming days.
EVEN
if it may mean that not everything is just as you would have it to be!
And you just might find, that the joys that others see
will make you happier than you can imagine
by stretching a bit of yourself to get there
for the greater good of those around you
and
the Universal Energy that is out there affecting all.

Step out of you, and into other
watching the profound affects and feeling that it generates by giving of self
and
opening of YOU to receive the gifts
that
the idea of
"don't worry bout a thing"
might just bring.

So,
there ya go,
I'm sitting here enjoying my coffee
and
the sounds of Bob Marley
in my happy place.
Heaven help the ones who try to knock me out of that place on this day!

(can you tell it's been a rough week?)

"We know too much and feel too little. At least we feel too little of those creative emotions from which a good life springs" [Bertrand Russell]

STOMP

The real key in life is to make yourself feel good when you don't feel good or when you don't even want to feel good,
cos
it's easy when you do!

Today,
I want and am goin to stay in my
HAPPY Place
and
I will laugh if even at myself!

So as Forest Gump would say,
"that's all I have to say about that".

The fire is burning, the sage is lit, many blessings to all who gather here.
Walk In Beauty
DRSES
author of
Healing Heartaches, Stories of Loss and Life