Sunday, August 21, 2011

On Integrity... and honor on a MONDAY across the globe ... yes IT Is MONDAY



Good morning Monday friends across the world!
Sometimes a post is too powerful, its lessons and message too strong to only leave for a day, it's prayers, hopes and healing ways too much to let another thought take it
and perhaps let it go too quick.
After it was read by my dear cuzzie Angie, and talked about with my beloved Godson by her; after she heard his "quick to react anger/opinion/attitude"
after he wanted to "rule" her day and that of his little brother:
my phone rang with a number I did not know;
so I answered in my usual way:
"Dr Showalter", .... (pause) then hearing a flat voice say, "this is Dvante" (pause)...
I said, "to what do I owe this occurance/pleasure of hearing your voice D'Vante?"
This is where you may want to sit down you coffee; men, women, coaches of VA TECH and across the globe:
My 17 year old Godson says:
"My Mom thought I should call"
(very long silence)
The Godmother reply: "REally... Really?, that is why you have called my number today?"
The heart of my heart 17 year old Godson who has disrespected me which is what the real issue is; then says:
"Yea, and I do NOT think I did anything wrong"

It is important to always
B R E A T H E

The Godmother who has loved him all of his life, has had his back even during those times he was not always right-side
replies:
"D'Vante, when YOU think it a good idea to call ME, when YOU have something to say to ME, when YOU can accept responsibility for YOU and act with INTEGRITY HONESTLY,
then perhaps YOU should think it a good idea to call me
and
then... perhaps WE can have a conversation.
Have a great senior year, a great football season.
Good-bye"
*click*
Let' see, where did I put that name, number of that pastor that my Godson says is the only "word" of God
 he believes in or that matters to him
since he must be reading from a book that has been altered on respect of elders, of respect of all living things,
of honor
of the God which lives within us...
ah yes, and the coach of VA Tech, I know he reads this blog ...
Interesting the impact of one boy when the stone is thrown in hast into the river and the effects as it ripples out to so many...
the effects felt by all.
Not that this lesson along with wolf has not been taught mind you!

Monday Morning Message:
Children in Southwest Virginia are headed to school today, starting off a new year, (and perhaps across the country as well.)
Kamryn has told me last year, he is "ready/focused/excited"
and plans to hit that honor role!
Kids are excited in the most part; they are ready to see friends,
feel the structure and to learn
and heaven knows parents/grandparents, and the communities are ready as well!

Our children must be taught and held accountability, responsibility, kindness and
RESPECT.
If not now,
when?
Kam will hit 10 on Wednesday,
his fav Auntie Dot has already gifted him his
"off the hook IPOD" that he has dreamed about;
it is goin to be the best evah gift
I am told;
just as last year folks heard of D'Vante receiving his
IMAC from his Godmother;
his best and most surprising gift ever!
Kamryn was popping the bubble wrap in excitement for his brothers' excitement so loud as I was on the phone sharing the birthday that it was hard to hear
but
so thrilling to see the pictures that
Angie kept sending on the text
of the party going on
each so excited for and about D'Vante
and
his day
after they arrived at his favorite restaurant
only to find
"da Godmother had arranged from a distance a gift card sitting there to cover his/my family as they enjoyed the meal!"

Last night,
Angie and Kamryn returned from a day and evening with
COB, a day that they rejoiced in the greatness of each breath,
and
little Kamryn got an early birthday gift that he has wanted
so badly
to dance to the music and all that swagga stuff,
and
he returns to his big brother with glee and excitement
needing help to "download music"
AND
can u see where this is going?
D'Vante starts issues with his Mom
asking
"where is mine? that cost more than what I got from Dot/COB,
and otherwise, being his "ungodlike self"
in his balance and check
while wearing his
senior class ring that was given to him by
"none other than COB"
and will be wearing his
letterman jacket
this year?
Message for Monday?
Where is the dance for those celebrating
THEIR SPECIAL DAY
Dancing on the desk
because someone is getting a special recognition, a birthday gift,
a kindness extended to them
a hand that pats or arms that hug
where is
the compassion, the passion
the
Creator/God that lives within
and
yes friends
"I sure hope all are feeding the right wolf"
consistantly.
Please hold my cuzzie Angie UP in your prayers,
hold her up as she needs the strength to give the structure to her boys, and continue the teaching, to use
the necessary roughness that will bring out the kindness
that our world is aching for
and
that we see in so many youth
of which I have the honor to speak to at many events.
Wado!


Gotta run,
thinkin I'll go play with the dolphins in my mind today
thinkin I'll go surprise some little kid
and
do something kind for them today.

HOW bout YOU?


Kelly TwoWolves
"My Sissy"
Family of choice



I glanced at my Godson's wall on Facebook yesterday to see if he had posted any recent pictures of his
latest football practices of those
RADFORD BOBCATS
or
if there was any updates on his life
as
I don't hear much from him these days.
AND
there on his page
I see a message from my sissy
"Kelly TwoWolves"
renowned psychic, healer, and
my "adopted sissy" out in South Dakota!
A remarkable woman she is
and
I had to look twice when I read her words to my
17 year old D'Vante:
Dvante , everywhere you go someone is always watching, And Integrity is doing the right thing even if noone is watching".


As I sat and read the words she had so eloquently written, taking the time from her busy day and sent to my
Godson, I was filled with emotion and gratitude.
I was overcome with gratitude while
thinking,
how profound those words;
how meaningful
how appropriate for particularly my Godson
as he enters his senior year of high school
and
at this particular time of his young life.
TwoWolves lives her life guided by spirit
by messages of The Creator,
by feelings so strong they could move her
and the mountains of the
Black Hills
.
of course
D'Vante is quick to answer anyone,
and unfortunately answers often with what is often short sighted and opinonated and harsh at times;
can be in reality and often viewed as
"disrespect and attitude"
rather than well thought out opinion that is grounded in loving and kindness and gentle spirit.
As I looked back later for the latest and greatest of football pictures
I saw that once again
his Godmother felt that pain of disappointment and his missing the gift he had been given as he replied to this powerful and well respected woman and friend of mine with this: [and I quote:] 
"Wise words, that's why I always live my life as God is watching, Because when my time comes his opinion is the only one that matters".

Yes, that is my 17 year old godson, (note the "always in his statement";
yes that's the same godson you've read about, seen photos of; the one who's heart beats within my chest;
 who I would defend to anyone, would fight to the death for; have stood for all of his young life up against the wall, within many situations since his birth.
I suppose it was not lost upon anyone here
nor Kelly Two Wolves
that no where in his remark
was,
"Hello Kelly KellyTwoWolves in South Dakota
 thank you for thinking of me,
with what started out lovely with at least correct
 "wise words",
I guess all noticed there was no "thank you" for thinking of me today,
nor no "take care" or "God Bless YOU" at the end.
But there was also a clear message of
"when my time comes it is HIS opinion that will be the only opinion that matters";
 which to any intellegent person
is translated to
"I do not care about the thoughts or opinions or standards of anyone NOW or in the future, only MINE"
and that was from one who has yet to start their life,
God spare his life, he has yet to begin.
The Creator, Universal Oneness (God) lives within each of us
and therefore
when one says that the opinions/thoughts/help/suggestions of others mean nothing (at the young age of 17
it means
"nothing nor no one matter but me and my opionion"
as we are the God manifest within ourselves.
Our living is that which matters
and it is in our
integrity, our service to others
that we enhance our Creator/God within
to live the best lives possible in the eyes
of the Creator/God within
that is based in love, kindness, respect for all living things
walking with gentleness and goodness to and for those we love and meet along the way.
"When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That's my religion." ~Abraham Lincoln

Most would be excited or over the top
to recieve their own message from
a person of the stature of
KellyTwoWolves, known across the world
and be rather amazed.
He can be a loving and caring individual,
and that is witnessed mostly with his
best pals and their parents I hear from a distance;
he can be so much
more
based in love and that he has been loved deeply
and continues to be.
BUT
it is how he chooses to be that seems
to be giving him difficulty
now that he approaches his senior year
where the rubber meets the road
and
will now chart his course for his life.
One thing he has learned through the years
I do believe
"One does NOT lie, cheat, steal, nor disrespect
the Godmother"
Just not how I roll nor believe
nor live my life
><
funny thing is this:
when he was but a babe; he had a "wolf" stuffed one that was given to him by his Godmother, to watch over him, he was told the story of the two wolves...
BUT
now he says:
"I don't believe in the wolf story I believe in god"
and
of course there is that tatt
I bought and he has on his chest for his birthday
"where there is god there is light"
BUT
where is his light
and understanding
that the wolf story is within
and is the same
...
...

I did notice later that
Kelly TwoWolves posted again to
D'Vante, who is My Godson, my heart, a 17 year old'
one whose life has yet to begin,
but with the thought of his remarks
sounds as though he will not really care
or love until he dies and then leave his life's work
and
legacy up to The Creator
and
the "opinion"
which just boggles my mind
...
"where the is god there is light"
as it is not tattooed across his chest
and
I have to wonder does that mean anything for his life
and the many many years
that he will walk among humans
living?
WHERE IS THIS LIGHT
is what others think and how they are treated
do not matter in the day to day schema
to this boy?
So... now my heart aches for what he has become in his thoughts, actions and self-abosrbed beliefs it seems.

And TwoWolves and spirit led her in saying? 
 I could have never said better,
but
he probably does NOT understand, (nor is he interested in expanding that understanding it appears)
although he is of his mothers' blood, My Mothers' blood
of my blood
and
of
Granny's blood.

TwoWolves simply and with kindness said this:

"I sure hope you are feeding the right wolf"

And yet, my Godson did not call his godmother to ask
what does this mean, although he has been told the story since he was two; he used to have a wolf sitting in his bedroom that held the story.
He did not call to say,
What does this mean, and will you talk to me,
I'm so sorry that I have caused such pain and what can I do.
He did not message Two Wolves
the renowned psychic and friend of his Godmother with questions... Perhaps he thinks he knows all the answers.

Many say: typical for a teenager.
BUT,
that is not good enough; he is not typical
he is MY Godson,
I expect more from my blood, my heart
and a boy that has been loved and shown
the ways of love all of his life through
compassion kindness and touch.

the Tale of The Two Wolves with each of YOU/US:

Cherokee Legend has a most beautiful story
one that is most appropriate for this world
for our children and for ourselves
in this world and day to day lives.

A young one sat with his Elder one time who told him:
child; within all of us lives inside, two wolves at battle:

One is EVIL, it is anger, ugliness, rage, greed, hatefulness, jealously, meanness, darkness, horror, sorrow, regret
AND YET SO MUCH MORE

The other is JOY, peace, kindness, love, faith, tenderness, hope, belief, acceptance, light, happiness, magical moments, acceptances, pride, honor,truth, integrity,
AND YET SO MUCH MORE

The young one had listened hard and said very seriously,
Well, please tell me... which one "wins"?
the Elder smiled gently, touching the child with such love and
simply said,
"THE ONE YOU FEED"

Dear friends,
I hope you are feeding the right wolf
and
my Godsons and Olivia, my hearts and future;
I pray
YOU are always nurturing and feeding
the right wolf, as they have been taught, nurtured
and
encouraged with each kind word and embrace through the years.

thank-you Kelly TwoWolves
for thinking of
my Godson D'Vante today.
Please forgive his arrogance and rude response to you,
he has been raised better,
and
deep inside he has been taught better.
>< 
"Choose being kind over being right and you'll be right every time, and The Creator/God/dess will take a liking to you and always be there for you."
BUT
make no mistake,
you cannot fool the Creator/God or Goddess
and
Creator don't like "ugly"
and
remember friends






I will share with you readers,
should you desire a reading
with
"the real deal"
in the way of a psychic
please give
Kelly TwoWovles
a call to schedule it!
I have had many readings with her,
and
she is
"amazing, she always gives you what you need and so much more">
and when you tell me, she sounds and laughs like me,
you will not be the first!
But most importantly
YOU will NOT be disappointed with the time spent with her.

She is also a remarkable artisan
and
to visit her recent offerings (she's havin a great sale)
visit

i am most honored to call her my "sissy", my friend.
And tonight
I ask
"sissy please accept my apologies for the rudeness of my Godson".

Please hold him UP in lodge, in prayer and ask that the Elders of the Black Hills also keep him in their prayers.

><
May the Universal Oneness that is within each of your, the god/goddess manifest that lives strong
allow you to remember all that you are
and
that you have all that you need to
DO MORE, be more
in the service to others
which in turn allows you to live fuller, live richer
and
that is the intention of your creation.
It is in the giving of self
that the light burns brighter
in acts of love and kindness to those we see, those we know
and those we call family.
"Life's most persistent and urgent question is, 'What are you doing for others?'” Martin Luther KingWe only have now to make things right, to embrace this moment,

to be accountable for ourselves and our actions,
and
our lives.
>>

UPDATE:
Olivia in Marlyland is doing wonderfully and looking forward to another great school year; feeding the right wolf and enjoying each moment of each day, playing soccer and running like a pony with wild abandon on those ankles with no problems,
while 'the Mama" Joan and I continue to greive our baby Olivia who is now 11 and so lovely and kind
as she enters a new year of school
looking more grown up each day!

Kamryn is getting ready for birthday #10
and just tickled as he can be
after a day with his Mom and auntie Dot
where he ate and ate and ate,
while shopping til he dropped
all is great in Kamryn world.
Kamryn turns 10 on Wednesday!

 "Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen." Michael Jordon #23
D'Vante was with seniors this weekend,
and in the morning is taking his
Mom to the coaches breakfast
for "dad's and players"
as his Mom is both Dad/Mom
and I am thrilled that she will sit there beside him
and
hopefully be introduced to all and
receive a round of applause
for being both!

EE in Colorado was taken to the ER
as her eyes began to have blood and broke into blisters secondary from the IV given for the heart tests and is in severe pain but now with eye treatment under her loving son's care.
><
Sandy and Stuart are working hard,
as Sandy prepares for a birthday on Tuesday
and
now that Stu has "3 wives" we are giving him a hard time on making her day extra special and plan to seize his wallet to ensure her a special special birthday
while he plans to kick it off with serving her
breakfast in bed!
He still says his negotiating [powers] with the three of us has been greatly diminished!
And we love that!

We continue to await news from Shannon on her brother Rod in Michigan and prayers are going up there.

FOR:

Katie, Deshon, Deion, Matt, Hunter, The Bobcats of Radford VA, Barb and Leo Henning, Rick FEchner, Ryan Baurain, Melissa Reid, "Probation Professional pals", Jim Vander May (*who has been working in the Professional Caregiving field for 45 years in Michigan*


and


FOR


Rod Markowski, Lynn, Ryan, Jordon


Darryl Markowski Ithank you for your service)


Brian Markowski


Shannon Becker, Nick, Reagan,


Dr Iris of Detroit Medical Center, (was lovely meeting you on the flight, please take best care of you)


Sandy R. Carol, Stephanie, Marnie, Geri, Chris, Matt,


those in Oklahoma City, in Tulsa, In Ft Worth, Dallas, Ike,


Isabel, Teresa, Janelle, Patricia, Susan, Karen, Laura in Yuba City CA,


Crossroads Hospice and those who care out there working and walking the walk, Perry, Clayton, George, Janet, and all in green!


Rick, Calley, Ron, Rebekeh, Brenda, Becca, Audrey, Gabe, Dena, BEth, Lill, Jay Hanson, Jennifer, Beth Jett, Huntsville AL, Sheri, Wendy Reese and family, The Boy Scouts of Dora AL, Cam, Sandy, Toby, Edith Vaughn and family,Susan, Greg and Kyle Korabek (Landon Korabek on the other side now), Stephen Bright and family, Walter Littlemoon, Jane, Laura, Mitch, Jenn, Chris, Mary, Taft, Martha Deaver, Morris, Rose Brick, The Baitinger Family, The Yaslowitz Family, The St Petersbug PD, Congresswoman Gabbie and her family, Dahlee in NJ, Judy Kelley, beloved husband and family, Jennifer, (now being watched over by her beloved husband and child), Norma, EE, Little Cub to CJ and Angel eyes Jack, Daniel, Dave, Cindy and Steve, Marty, Sweet Pea and Pie Face, Florence, Jeremy, Dennis, Darrel, Greg, Leroy, Rebekka, Carly, John, Diana, Crystal, Karen, Janet, Callie, Lorie, Laura,
2 Wolves and Jinx in SD, (http://www.twowolvescreations.com/) Kelly and family,Judy W and her 4 sons up there in New England, Cherokee Wick, Benni, Gayle, Jonathan, Great Aunt Effie's family, Marilyn Warren, Ilene, Tweak and Chris, Jen and Bian, Ericka, Shannon, Hannah Sherabow, Pam C. and family, Susan S., Angela A., Nancy W, Sue G, Kelly and family,Mato Oyate Kola, Susan Brouse, Cindy and Stevie, Kim, Olatz, EVB, Guin, Yiva, Mary, Sandra and family, Christina Hellen, Dotti B., Susan and Greg, Amy, Becky and Barry Long, Christina, Matt and children, Aaron, Lisa and family, Freda, Linda Katie, Pat D, Tink and Mitch, LITTLE Ben, Jerry, Trish, Barb, Anastasia, Mary, Rylee, Lindsay, Ann, Sarah, Ruth, Johnny, Bobby and the Tucker Family, The Spraker Family,Kenny H, Michelle, Sandy, Addie and family in Canada, Sandy, BraveHeart, Rowena, Chris, Robyn Elizabeth, Jean, Duke,Rowena, Chris, Baby Robyn Elizabeth, Diane Smallze and family, Patti and family, The Korabek Family and friends, The Gasse Family and Friends,






Officer Crawford of St Petersburg, The Kocab Family, baby Lilly Nicole Kocab, The Curtis Family, Tarpon PD, those serving here and there in Uniform... Those now walking The Thin Blue Line, (far to many joining that line recently across our Nation),

Mylee, Mikey and family in DC, Jack M & Janis in OC, Stephen, Stuart Wittel (back from his 4th tour as a fighter pilot of the US MARINES inAfghanistan) and his parents Sandy and Stuart, Lavie Coltrane and her loving family, Andrea Gasse and family here and in New England, Ali and family, Randy and Winnie in New Mexico, Jill Wheaton L, Dr Peter in NY, Dr Rev Bev, Irene M, Bernice, Eileen and family, Dorothy, Angela, Kamryn Elijah, Ode, "Southwest VA", Vicki, Matthew and family, Chris, Lovie, Nancy, Pedro and Our adopted family in BRAZIL, Our North American Black American Bears, The Windcross Convservacy and those beautiful Spanish Mustangs known as "pocket ponies"...


AND for:


Anne, Jim, JADE, Joseph, Cathy Madden, Nathan, and her family., Cindy in NC, Liz, Lee, Molly, Joanie, Jude, COFA, Judi, Ken, Matthew, Nick, Matt, Mark's family and many friends , Pat, Irene, Kevin, Dr D, Deb, Randy, Dr B, Isabelle, Kelsey, Sabrina , Charlie and family, Jean, Julie, Rhonda, Victoria, Mildred, Andi and family, Faith, Denise, Jim, Tom, Joey, Shelby friends and family, Judi, Phylis, Joyce, Gina, Tonya, Beverly and Family, Janeth, Melissa,Virginia, Stacey, Elizabeth, Nita, Gary Siegal, Adrienna, Brian Mawbey, the Boyan Family, Jean R and friend Christy Rider, Victoria and hubbie, Stephen, Gayle, Steph, Chris, Erica, Eileen, John, Mindy, Jack, Susan Werth Becken, her brother Mike and family, Craig James Lightfoot and his family, Kenny, Audrey, Ed Saner, Patty Crowley, Bennie, Gail, Jonathan, Moe, Beverly, Dennis, Peter, Trish, Cynthia, Heidi and her family, Kathy Knights family, Edith Vaughn, Candy, Cynthia, Jenn, Eve, Edith, Jason, Karen, Linda, Joyce, Belinda, Jeanette, Jennifer, Patti, Sandy S, and ...






(Feel free to let me know if you would like to add your/or a friends name to our circle)






Please lift these friends family and loved ones of these people in your hearts and prayers ~


YOU can join us today, you can step up, STAND UP, and can choose to to join with us IN YOUR HEARTS AND MIND AND SOUL.


Feel deeply each beat of your heart knowing that we are here only for this moment and life is fragile, oh how we need to remember that/


We have right here right now to make it right with all living things knowing we are all interconnected n the Universe.


WE HAVE THIS DAY... words and actions get imprinted on the heart, on the nervous systems of those we meet, greet and those we love.


KINDNESS is something that we all can do more with;


it is never ever out of style, out of vogue and its benefits are tremendous.


Enjoy this day as we enjoy the beauty of a butterfly that graces us with its presence on a fabulous day!
Wado!


STOMP with great HOPE and HAPPINESS for this day it is yours, and for that I am grateful, aren't you!










Know that there are some powerful warriors on this page and in the next place along with some Powerful angels ~ and together we have banded together with the energy, love and support to facilitate healing and hope for so many along their journey...


I met three women facing Breast Cancer


on this trip... we spoke, they shared tears and thoughts.


they reminded me of


many I have had as friends and clients and I shared with them some of the gifts I have received by warriors here


in the stories...


then I reminded them of a quote by


Maya Angelou that many of you if not all of you


might just want to write down and put on your mirror


to remind yourself of


while breathing today whether you are woman or man:

 ”Our lives improve only when we take chances - and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves.” —Walter Anderson












and for that I hope you feel great connection in times of sorrow, confusion, isolation, and happiness; knowing we are all connected in the great circle of life~


Whatever it is,


get out there and find what you need to fight it,


to stare life in the face


and to


know


YOu are a warrior.


breathe friends,


YOU MUST REMEMBER TO BREATHE


The fire is burning brightly, the embers are hot and the sage is drifting into the air, with prayers being sent to all in the prayer bowl and many who are not. You know who you are and you are being thought of ...


That is the HOPE in Healing Heartaches ~


,


God Bless the USA and her people.


"Experience is not what happens to you; it is what you do with what happens to you."
~ Aldous Huxley


Walk in Beauty,


DRSES



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Friday, August 19, 2011

An Epidemic of Leaving Kids IN Cars? C;mon NOW...

Nana's Girl
(oh how I  love "the look")
and how fitting the look for today's thoughts:
as I think,
R U KIDDING ME?
We now have an Epidemic of
people leaving kids in the cars
during the HEAT OF SUMMER
and they are dying in a hot minute according to
newspapers and reports across the country...
One of the main reasons this is happening
is reported to be:
HOLD ON TO YOUR HAT
and
get ready for
"the look"
(scroll up if need be)
"People are forgetting that their kids are in the backseat of the car"
as they are more hurried, and often just want/need to run in to the store for something!

Now we are reading that a suggestion for those traveling with children is to put a "post it" note on the dashboard
to serve as a reminder that a child is in
the car or in the back seat!
"REALLY"?
Are we so addle brained in our driving that we do not know or do not remember placing them there?
Do they not make noise?
What in the world ?

The latest statistics on child deaths is so great that now we are calling it an epidemic?
Not because of a disease,
but
because of
"recklessness" it appears.

Before Olivia was able to give us
"the look" that the Nana just delights in,
she looked like this:

Who could forget that she was in the backseat buckled in the car?
Even for a quick stop to the store in 100 degree heat?
With the car running the A/C on
and 500 things on your mind...
How do you forget?

Yes, I agree folks are busy these days!
I agree with the article I read about
kids sleep and get quiet;
some I hear put kids in the car and drive them around to soothe them at times,
because a car will put a kid to sleep in a quick second when at home they will just not get settled,
BUT to FORGET?

This article I read stated that in 2009
there were 33 children who died in cars with the average age of children being from
5 days to 14 years old!

31% DIED OF HYPERTHERMIA DEATHS..
and
wouldn't it stand to reason
that Florida
has ranked second in heat related deaths
for kids and I would suspect animals as well
as
I see idiots with their four-leggeds out on days that we know those little creatures would prefer staying in their comfortable homes.
Texas is first in child related deaths while
California ranks third.

these are preventable tragedies, and ones that people will live with the rest of their lives
and it just boggles my mind how anyone
could possibly say
"I forgot my child was in the car".
They did put them in the car, or they were present when someone else did ... right?

Did you know that a child's body temperature climbs three to five times faster than an adults, especially in a hot car? Something to think about when you are out on a hot day, and you have a child; or perhaps know someone with a child.
Good to know if you perhaps see a child
or
an animal unattended in a vehicle
and
"wonder" shall I intervene by WALKING into a store and looking for the owner of either, or call the police or 911.
I say
"do NOT waste time, find a way to get in that car
and
perhaps save a life."

In less than 30 minutes, the temperature inside a car can increase 35 degrees.
Ever seen an old person sitting inside a car with only a window cracked?
An animal?
Imagine in this age of tinted windows... is there a child in a car seat in the back seat ?
Are they dying as you are wondering whether to intervene?
WAKE UP people,
what are you thinking?
That infant you forgot about while you went in to buy milk and a lottery ticket and oh by the way,
"hello neighbor"
can die in as little as 15 minutes even on a day
of 75 degrees.

Now given that I keep it real,
 have to tell you I almost came out of the chair, as I read this part:
"even the most conscientious parents can overlook a sleeping baby in a vehicle".
OVERLOOK?
Yes, memory experts point out that if you've ever forgotten a pot left burning on a stove, you know how easy it is to have a dangerous memory lapse.

BUT,
we are talking living breathing children, animals and elders in YOUR car here.
...
Kamryn when he still had sweet smelling feet!
Now Kamryn has always gone to sleep in a car,
still does...
Try as I might to forget him, to not feed him,
to otherwise just ignore him,
WHO COULD IGNORE, FORGET AND BASICALLY
NOT JUST LOVE HIM
OR
ALL THE CHILDREN THEY HAVE IN THEIR VEHICLES?
but
to have to put a post it note as advised in the article
or
Put a picture of your child on your dashboard to serve as a reminder that they are in the backseat?
C'mon now people...
slow your behind down if you are that busy
or
STOP DRIVING WITH CHILDREN, ANIMALS AND ELDERS IN YOUR CAR..

Check out your car before entering it; kids are notorious for using unlocked cars as forts, as play areas, as whatever they are up to (I cannot imagine them leaving the comforts of the gaming room of home though)
BE SAFE.
and
your animals...
See those 4 leggeds in cars out there friends?
See their tongues hanging out and hear their barks?
The window that is open just enough to make them want some air?
Imagine how hot that car gets in a moment of time,
and take a look at how many deaths by heat
animals are suffering
and
ask yourself...
why is this happening?
Gypsy loves to ride in a car!
BUT
you will never ever see her in one unattended.

In this article I read where our wonder Rick Butcher, Tarpon Springs Fire Chief stated that a motor vehicle starts to heat up the minute the engine is turned off.
I LOVE the Tarpon Springs Fire Department,
we bake and send them goodies every once in awhile just because we "get it" as to the work they do;
after all they SAVED our neighbors/friends
home next door,
and
they are out there as first responders everyday.
But I had to laugh when Rick said that
"many good samaritans" report quickly such cases as children left in unattended cars and that it is
ILLEGAL IN FLORIDA to leave children unattended in a motor vehicle.

Good Samaritans?
I would think that people with a heart, good bad or indifferent would bust a window out of a car in a hot minute if they saw a child, animal or Elder
left unattended in a car in the heat.
Let the chips fall on the person who claims
"I forgot they were there"
or
"I was only gone a few minutes".

There is an organization for more information should you need it:

But, it just may be I've given you all you need
to be alert to what may be one of the
most outrageous acts that could cause death
of children, animals and Elders
and
is preventable.
what a thing to have to live with the rest of your life and to think you would have to say;
"memory experts liken this to leaving a pot on a stove, and I left my child in the back seat without putting their picture on the dashboard to remind me they were there."

Perhaps putting purses there, or cell phones in their car seat would help?

Oh lawd, what a thought...
and now
they SELL alarms for this:
these alarms remind people when they have
LEFT A CHILD UNATTENDED!
There are also devices that "hook" to the car seat or the child restraint seat that sounds an alarm on a key ring if a person walks away from a vehicle with a child still in the seat...
Perhaps the warriors here could have a round table and together we could create or invent
an alarm for
"I've lost my mind, and should not have children or transport anyone but myself".

Creator bless the Child, The animal
and The Elders, keep them from harms way
and
those behind the wheel.

Remember when ?
You could ride your kids in the front seat, no air bags, no shoulder belts,
and
drank from the garden hose,
had to be in for supper and you always seemed to know when supper was?
No one forgot you in those times did they?

The fire is burning brightly, the sage is lit.
Prayers going up to all who know who they are, and some that don't.

I am now on that quest I have let you all know about for EE in Colorado and that power chair that is broken.. I have sent an email to the CEO of a company that works with those things, and asked for his help.
AND, maybe he will be a hero, and one who is talked about here,
OR
maybe he will just be talked about here!!!

EE is recovering from testing in Colorado, still waiting for updates from Shannon In WI on Rod in MI.,
COB is Cancer free we have been told, and she is now ready to rejoin the dance of her life.
Chris, is doing wonderfully, and states that she reads each day the thoughts here and is proudly wearing
PINK our breast cancer survivor is minus the "culprits" but doing great!
Kids are preparing to get back to school,
and
cuzzie Ang is preparing to put in work at her college classes at night while working F/T and raising those two godsons of mine, both suiting up for some football. Kamryn #15 and D'Vante in his senior year playing varsity #51!

So then,
what are you up to on this fabulous Friday!
I smell the weekend...

Walk In Beauty,
DRSES
Healing Heartaches, Stories of Loss and Life


Oprah?
still waiting on her we are!

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Have you noticed?

Look at Those Wings
of
the
Awesome Eagle

Have you noticed?
The light is changing and it's getting darker earlier friends.
Oh my yep,
fall is just around the corner it is!

You can see it
in the light of these days, and sure can notice
as the darkness comes on a bit earlier each evening.

It is hard to imagine, that already schools are preparing for students to return;
here in Tarpon Springs
after cuts into budgets that make me wonder how
they will educate or keep lights on
the kids will be returning soon as well.
Here in Tarpon Springs High School
(not so big a school)
11 teachers were cut, 
another 17 positions eliminated,
bringing the total of 
24 teachers in two years
to a small town
and
high school here ...
And we expect to educate the future 
exactly how?
Meantime the 
speaker of the house is making over
250K plus health care benefits for life
I think it is.

And I wonder,
whose house is he speaking for?
Certainly not mine.

Perhaps the Eagle
would speak more clearly
and
educate our youth
and
speak more clearly for me and mine,
with straight eyes and clean talons/hands
while protecting and serving all.

As we are fast approaching
the
10 year anniversary of 9/11
I have just read that
there are
NO FIRST RESPONDERS INVITED TO THE EVENT

and 
I wonder

HOW CAN THIS BE...

and
there are folks who continue to ridicule, judge, condemn, and otherwise disrespect
the leader of our country

and 
I can't help but wonder

how does this help us as a country stand
UNITED as the greatest country in the world,
how does this teach our children
to be respectful to their Elders, to their educators,
to their family

and 
I cannot help but wonder
when 
will we get it truly understand.

We do NOT have to like whoever it is 
sitting in that white house,
but
we 
DO NEED TO RESPECT THE FACT
THAT FOR THE MOMENT
THEY ARE THE PERSON 
WHO IS THE LEADER OF OUR COUNTRY
AND
WE AS A NATION NEED TO STAND
ARM IN ARM
UNITED
IN ORDER TO SHOW THE WORLD
WE ARE THE USA
WE ARE FREE BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE
WE
STAND
and
our 
COLORS DO NOT RUN
We teach our children respect
through our behaviors and actions
in our country, our community and our homes.

I have to tell you,
heaven help us
if we have to listen to the likes of
Michelle Bachmann all through the season 
as she
likened John Wayne's birthplace to the actual state of a serial killer John Wayne Cody
and 
"Happy Birthday Elvis"
recently when it was NOT his birthday nor was he in her audience.
I think Palin just lost her status, and now has a replacement for "OH NOOO did you hear what she just said"....

Yep, it's goin to be a long few months on the political trails of "ugly in action",
so you might want to order your copies of
Healing Heartaches,
They Called Me Invisible
and
any good movies out there
or 
just get out and have a great time
watching the light change.

BUT
make no mistake,
in that 
White House
in D.C.
is not easy place to be, no matter your party line, no matter your bed or room you sleep.
No Matter who says they love you today in that political room, I wouldn't trust em in a dark room as far as I could throw them,
but
we as a Nation,
need to stop this madness of 
slamming our President
and
now stand as 
AMERICANS
together
and together for and with those wearing Uniforms
in great gratitude
as
we remember
><

Like Warren Buffet recently said, and said so well,
"It's past time to coddle the billionaires, let's start those cuts on the deficit there".
I have always loved and admired 
Warren Buffet,
and would just love an opportunity to sit and have a cup of coffee or something stronger
and
listen to him talk awhile...
I bet I would learn a lot from that man.

Thankyou
FIRST RESPONDERS OF 9/11
I think of you everyday
and



WE WILL NEVER FORGET 9/11

The fire is burning
its embers are hot
The sage is lit,
thoughts surrounding EE in Colorado, Shannon in WI, Rod in MI, and all who are walking the path today

Walk In Beauty
DRSES

oh Oprah? My people are trying to reach your people, to have YOU call or better yet to
pick UP
Healing Heartaches!