On Integrity... and honor on a MONDAY across the globe ... yes IT Is MONDAY

Good morning Monday friends across the world!

Sometimes a post is too powerful, its lessons and message too strong to only leave for a day, it's prayers, hopes and healing ways too much to let another thought take it

and perhaps let it go too quick.

After it was read by my dear cuzzie Angie, and talked about with my beloved Godson by her; after she heard his "quick to react anger/opinion/attitude"

after he wanted to "rule" her day and that of his little brother:

my phone rang with a number I did not know;

so I answered in my usual way:

"Dr Showalter", .... (pause) then hearing a flat voice say, "this is Dvante" (pause)...

I said, "to what do I owe this occurance/pleasure of hearing your voice D'Vante?"

This is where you may want to sit down you coffee; men, women, coaches of VA TECH and across the globe:

My 17 year old Godson says:

"My Mom thought I should call"

(very long silence)

The Godmother reply: "REally... Really?, that is why you have called my number today?"

The heart of my heart 17 year old Godson who has disrespected me which is what the real issue is; then says:

"Yea, and I do NOT think I did anything wrong"

It is important to always

B R E A T H E

The Godmother who has loved him all of his life, has had his back even during those times he was not always right-side

replies:

"D'Vante, when YOU think it a good idea to call ME, when YOU have something to say to ME, when YOU can accept responsibility for YOU and act with INTEGRITY HONESTLY,

then perhaps YOU should think it a good idea to call me

and

then... perhaps WE can have a conversation.

Have a great senior year, a great football season.

Good-bye"

*click*

Let' see, where did I put that name, number of that pastor that my Godson says is the only "word" of God

 he believes in or that matters to him

since he must be reading from a book that has been altered on respect of elders, of respect of all living things,

of honor

of the God which lives within us...

ah yes, and the coach of VA Tech, I know he reads this blog ...

Interesting the impact of one boy when the stone is thrown in hast into the river and the effects as it ripples out to so many...

the effects felt by all.

Not that this lesson along with wolf has not been taught mind you!

Monday Morning Message:

Children in Southwest Virginia are headed to school today, starting off a new year, (and perhaps across the country as well.)

Kamryn has told me last year, he is "ready/focused/excited"

and plans to hit that honor role!

Kids are excited in the most part; they are ready to see friends,

feel the structure and to learn

and heaven knows parents/grandparents, and the communities are ready as well!

Our children must be taught and held accountability, responsibility, kindness and

RESPECT.

If not now,

when?

Kam will hit 10 on Wednesday,

his fav Auntie Dot has already gifted him his

"off the hook IPOD" that he has dreamed about;

it is goin to be the best evah gift

I am told;

just as last year folks heard of D'Vante receiving his

IMAC from his Godmother;

his best and most surprising gift ever!

Kamryn was popping the bubble wrap in excitement for his brothers' excitement so loud as I was on the phone sharing the birthday that it was hard to hear

but

so thrilling to see the pictures that

Angie kept sending on the text

of the party going on

each so excited for and about D'Vante

and

his day

after they arrived at his favorite restaurant

only to find

"da Godmother had arranged from a distance a gift card sitting there to cover his/my family as they enjoyed the meal!"

Last night,

Angie and Kamryn returned from a day and evening with

COB, a day that they rejoiced in the greatness of each breath,

and

little Kamryn got an early birthday gift that he has wanted

so badly

to dance to the music and all that swagga stuff,

and

he returns to his big brother with glee and excitement

needing help to "download music"

AND

can u see where this is going?

D'Vante starts issues with his Mom

asking

"where is mine? that cost more than what I got from Dot/COB,

and otherwise, being his "ungodlike self"

in his balance and check

while wearing his

senior class ring that was given to him by

"none other than COB"

and will be wearing his

letterman jacket

this year?

Message for Monday?

Where is the dance for those celebrating

THEIR SPECIAL DAY

Dancing on the desk

because someone is getting a special recognition, a birthday gift,

a kindness extended to them

a hand that pats or arms that hug

where is

the compassion, the passion

the

Creator/God that lives within

and

yes friends

"I sure hope all are feeding the right wolf"

consistantly.

Please hold my cuzzie Angie UP in your prayers,

hold her up as she needs the strength to give the structure to her boys, and continue the teaching, to use

the necessary roughness that will bring out the kindness

that our world is aching for

and

that we see in so many youth

of which I have the honor to speak to at many events.

Wado!

Gotta run,

thinkin I'll go play with the dolphins in my mind today

thinkin I'll go surprise some little kid

and

do something kind for them today.

HOW bout YOU?

Kelly TwoWolves

"My Sissy"

Family of choice

I glanced at my Godson's wall on Facebook yesterday to see if he had posted any recent pictures of his

latest football practices of those

RADFORD BOBCATS

or

if there was any updates on his life

as

I don't hear much from him these days.

AND

there on his page

I see a message from my sissy

"Kelly TwoWolves"

renowned psychic, healer, and

my "adopted sissy" out in South Dakota!

A remarkable woman she is

and

I had to look twice when I read her words to my

17 year old D'Vante:

Dvante , everywhere you go someone is always watching, And Integrity is doing the right thing even if noone is watching".

As I sat and read the words she had so eloquently written, taking the time from her busy day and sent to my

Godson, I was filled with emotion and gratitude.

I was overcome with gratitude while

thinking,

how profound those words;

how meaningful

how appropriate for particularly my Godson

as he enters his senior year of high school

and

at this particular time of his young life.

TwoWolves lives her life guided by spirit

by messages of The Creator,

by feelings so strong they could move her

and the mountains of the

Black Hills

.

of course

D'Vante is quick to answer anyone,

and unfortunately answers often with what is often short sighted and opinonated and harsh at times;

can be in reality and often viewed as

"disrespect and attitude"

rather than well thought out opinion that is grounded in loving and kindness and gentle spirit.

As I looked back later for the latest and greatest of football pictures

I saw that once again

his Godmother felt that pain of disappointment and his missing the gift he had been given as he replied to this powerful and well respected woman and friend of mine with this: [and I quote:] 

"Wise words, that's why I always live my life as God is watching, Because when my time comes his opinion is the only one that matters".

Yes, that is my 17 year old godson, (note the "always in his statement";

yes that's the same godson you've read about, seen photos of; the one who's heart beats within my chest;

 who I would defend to anyone, would fight to the death for; have stood for all of his young life up against the wall, within many situations since his birth.

I suppose it was not lost upon anyone here

nor Kelly Two Wolves

that no where in his remark

was,

"Hello Kelly KellyTwoWolves in South Dakota

 thank you for thinking of me,

with what started out lovely with at least correct

 "wise words",

I guess all noticed there was no "thank you" for thinking of me today,

nor no "take care" or "God Bless YOU" at the end.

But there was also a clear message of

"when my time comes it is HIS opinion that will be the only opinion that matters";

 which to any intellegent person

is translated to

"I do not care about the thoughts or opinions or standards of anyone NOW or in the future, only MINE"

and that was from one who has yet to start their life,

God spare his life, he has yet to begin.

The Creator, Universal Oneness (God) lives within each of us

and therefore

when one says that the opinions/thoughts/help/suggestions of others mean nothing (at the young age of 17

it means

"nothing nor no one matter but me and my opionion"

as we are the God manifest within ourselves.

Our living is that which matters

and it is in our

integrity, our service to others

that we enhance our Creator/God within

to live the best lives possible in the eyes

of the Creator/God within

that is based in love, kindness, respect for all living things

walking with gentleness and goodness to and for those we love and meet along the way.

"When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That's my religion." ~Abraham Lincoln

Most would be excited or over the top

to recieve their own message from

a person of the stature of

KellyTwoWolves, known across the world

and be rather amazed.

He can be a loving and caring individual,

and that is witnessed mostly with his

best pals and their parents I hear from a distance;

he can be so much

more

based in love and that he has been loved deeply

and continues to be.

BUT

it is how he chooses to be that seems

to be giving him difficulty

now that he approaches his senior year

where the rubber meets the road

and

will now chart his course for his life.

One thing he has learned through the years

I do believe

"One does NOT lie, cheat, steal, nor disrespect

the Godmother"

Just not how I roll nor believe

nor live my life

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funny thing is this:

when he was but a babe; he had a "wolf" stuffed one that was given to him by his Godmother, to watch over him, he was told the story of the two wolves...

BUT

now he says:

"I don't believe in the wolf story I believe in god"

and

of course there is that tatt

I bought and he has on his chest for his birthday

"where there is god there is light"

BUT

where is his light

and understanding

that the wolf story is within

and is the same

...

...

I did notice later that

Kelly TwoWolves posted again to

D'Vante, who is My Godson, my heart, a 17 year old'

one whose life has yet to begin,

but with the thought of his remarks

sounds as though he will not really care

or love until he dies and then leave his life's work

and

legacy up to The Creator

and

the "opinion"

which just boggles my mind

...

"where the is god there is light"

as it is not tattooed across his chest

and

I have to wonder does that mean anything for his life

and the many many years

that he will walk among humans

living?

WHERE IS THIS LIGHT

is what others think and how they are treated

do not matter in the day to day schema

to this boy?

So... now my heart aches for what he has become in his thoughts, actions and self-abosrbed beliefs it seems.

And TwoWolves and spirit led her in saying? 

 I could have never said better,

but

he probably does NOT understand, (nor is he interested in expanding that understanding it appears)

although he is of his mothers' blood, My Mothers' blood

of my blood

and

of

Granny's blood.

TwoWolves simply and with kindness said this:

"I sure hope you are feeding the right wolf"

And yet, my Godson did not call his godmother to ask

what does this mean, although he has been told the story since he was two; he used to have a wolf sitting in his bedroom that held the story.

He did not call to say,

What does this mean, and will you talk to me,

I'm so sorry that I have caused such pain and what can I do.

He did not message Two Wolves

the renowned psychic and friend of his Godmother with questions... Perhaps he thinks he knows all the answers.

Many say: typical for a teenager.

BUT,

that is not good enough; he is not typical

he is MY Godson,

I expect more from my blood, my heart

and a boy that has been loved and shown

the ways of love all of his life through

compassion kindness and touch.

the Tale of The Two Wolves with each of YOU/US:

Cherokee Legend has a most beautiful story

one that is most appropriate for this world

for our children and for ourselves

in this world and day to day lives.

A young one sat with his Elder one time who told him:

child; within all of us lives inside, two wolves at battle:

One is EVIL, it is anger, ugliness, rage, greed, hatefulness, jealously, meanness, darkness, horror, sorrow, regret

AND YET SO MUCH MORE

The other is JOY, peace, kindness, love, faith, tenderness, hope, belief, acceptance, light, happiness, magical moments, acceptances, pride, honor,truth, integrity,

AND YET SO MUCH MORE

The young one had listened hard and said very seriously,

Well, please tell me... which one "wins"?

the Elder smiled gently, touching the child with such love and

simply said,

"THE ONE YOU FEED"

Dear friends,

I hope you are feeding the right wolf

and

my Godsons and Olivia, my hearts and future;

I pray

YOU are always nurturing and feeding

the right wolf, as they have been taught, nurtured

and

encouraged with each kind word and embrace through the years.

thank-you Kelly TwoWolves

for thinking of

my Godson D'Vante today.

Please forgive his arrogance and rude response to you,

he has been raised better,

and

deep inside he has been taught better.

>< 

"Choose being kind over being right and you'll be right every time, and The Creator/God/dess will take a liking to you and always be there for you."

BUT

make no mistake,

you cannot fool the Creator/God or Goddess

and

Creator don't like "ugly"

and

remember friends

"the world is round". 2FJfFN0HM_JII&h=HAQD8sv9LAQB6g7q9zYZt6CEbbiovz34WkMtuV38OHw193Q

I will share with you readers,

should you desire a reading

with

"the real deal"

in the way of a psychic

please give

Kelly TwoWovles

a call to schedule it!

I have had many readings with her,

and

she is

"amazing, she always gives you what you need and so much more">

and when you tell me, she sounds and laughs like me,

you will not be the first!

But most importantly

YOU will NOT be disappointed with the time spent with her.

kellytwowolves@yahoo.com

She is also a remarkable artisan

and

to visit her recent offerings (she's havin a great sale)

visit

http://www.twowolvescreations.com/

i am most honored to call her my "sissy", my friend.

And tonight

I ask

"sissy please accept my apologies for the rudeness of my Godson".

Please hold him UP in lodge, in prayer and ask that the Elders of the Black Hills also keep him in their prayers.

><

May the Universal Oneness that is within each of your, the god/goddess manifest that lives strong

allow you to remember all that you are

and

that you have all that you need to

DO MORE, be more

in the service to others

which in turn allows you to live fuller, live richer

and

that is the intention of your creation.

It is in the giving of self

that the light burns brighter

in acts of love and kindness to those we see, those we know

and those we call family.

"Life's most persistent and urgent question is, 'What are you doing for others?'” Martin Luther KingWe only have now to make things right, to embrace this moment,

to be accountable for ourselves and our actions,

and

our lives.

>>

UPDATE:

Olivia in Marlyland is doing wonderfully and looking forward to another great school year; feeding the right wolf and enjoying each moment of each day, playing soccer and running like a pony with wild abandon on those ankles with no problems,

while 'the Mama" Joan and I continue to greive our baby Olivia who is now 11 and so lovely and kind

as she enters a new year of school

looking more grown up each day!

Kamryn is getting ready for birthday #10

and just tickled as he can be

after a day with his Mom and auntie Dot

where he ate and ate and ate,

while shopping til he dropped

all is great in Kamryn world.

Kamryn turns 10 on Wednesday!

 "Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen." Michael Jordon #23

D'Vante was with seniors this weekend,

and in the morning is taking his

Mom to the coaches breakfast

for "dad's and players"

as his Mom is both Dad/Mom

and I am thrilled that she will sit there beside him

and

hopefully be introduced to all and

receive a round of applause

for being both!

EE in Colorado was taken to the ER

as her eyes began to have blood and broke into blisters secondary from the IV given for the heart tests and is in severe pain but now with eye treatment under her loving son's care.

><

Sandy and Stuart are working hard,

as Sandy prepares for a birthday on Tuesday

and

now that Stu has "3 wives" we are giving him a hard time on making her day extra special and plan to seize his wallet to ensure her a special special birthday

while he plans to kick it off with serving her

breakfast in bed!

He still says his negotiating [powers] with the three of us has been greatly diminished!

And we love that!

We continue to await news from Shannon on her brother Rod in Michigan and prayers are going up there.

FOR:

Katie, Deshon, Deion, Matt, Hunter, The Bobcats of Radford VA, Barb and Leo Henning, Rick FEchner, Ryan Baurain, Melissa Reid, "Probation Professional pals", Jim Vander May (*who has been working in the Professional Caregiving field for 45 years in Michigan*

and


FOR


Rod Markowski, Lynn, Ryan, Jordon


Darryl Markowski Ithank you for your service)


Brian Markowski


Shannon Becker, Nick, Reagan,


Dr Iris of Detroit Medical Center, (was lovely meeting you on the flight, please take best care of you)


Sandy R. Carol, Stephanie, Marnie, Geri, Chris, Matt,


those in Oklahoma City, in Tulsa, In Ft Worth, Dallas, Ike,


Isabel, Teresa, Janelle, Patricia, Susan, Karen, Laura in Yuba City CA,


Crossroads Hospice and those who care out there working and walking the walk, Perry, Clayton, George, Janet, and all in green!

Rick, Calley, Ron, Rebekeh, Brenda, Becca, Audrey, Gabe, Dena, BEth, Lill, Jay Hanson, Jennifer, Beth Jett, Huntsville AL, Sheri, Wendy Reese and family, The Boy Scouts of Dora AL, Cam, Sandy, Toby, Edith Vaughn and family,Susan, Greg and Kyle Korabek (Landon Korabek on the other side now), Stephen Bright and family, Walter Littlemoon, Jane, Laura, Mitch, Jenn, Chris, Mary, Taft, Martha Deaver, Morris, Rose Brick, The Baitinger Family, The Yaslowitz Family, The St Petersbug PD, Congresswoman Gabbie and her family, Dahlee in NJ, Judy Kelley, beloved husband and family, Jennifer, (now being watched over by her beloved husband and child), Norma, EE, Little Cub to CJ and Angel eyes Jack, Daniel, Dave, Cindy and Steve, Marty, Sweet Pea and Pie Face, Florence, Jeremy, Dennis, Darrel, Greg, Leroy, Rebekka, Carly, John, Diana, Crystal, Karen, Janet, Callie, Lorie, Laura,

2 Wolves and Jinx in SD, (http://www.twowolvescreations.com/) Kelly and family,Judy W and her 4 sons up there in New England, Cherokee Wick, Benni, Gayle, Jonathan, Great Aunt Effie's family, Marilyn Warren, Ilene, Tweak and Chris, Jen and Bian, Ericka, Shannon, Hannah Sherabow, Pam C. and family, Susan S., Angela A., Nancy W, Sue G, Kelly and family,Mato Oyate Kola, Susan Brouse, Cindy and Stevie, Kim, Olatz, EVB, Guin, Yiva, Mary, Sandra and family, Christina Hellen, Dotti B., Susan and Greg, Amy, Becky and Barry Long, Christina, Matt and children, Aaron, Lisa and family, Freda, Linda Katie, Pat D, Tink and Mitch, LITTLE Ben, Jerry, Trish, Barb, Anastasia, Mary, Rylee, Lindsay, Ann, Sarah, Ruth, Johnny, Bobby and the Tucker Family, The Spraker Family,Kenny H, Michelle, Sandy, Addie and family in Canada, Sandy, BraveHeart, Rowena, Chris, Robyn Elizabeth, Jean, Duke,Rowena, Chris, Baby Robyn Elizabeth, Diane Smallze and family, Patti and family, The Korabek Family and friends, The Gasse Family and Friends,






Officer Crawford of St Petersburg, The Kocab Family, baby Lilly Nicole Kocab, The Curtis Family, Tarpon PD, those serving here and there in Uniform... Those now walking The Thin Blue Line, (far to many joining that line recently across our Nation),

Mylee, Mikey and family in DC, Jack M & Janis in OC, Stephen, Stuart Wittel (back from his 4th tour as a fighter pilot of the US MARINES inAfghanistan) and his parents Sandy and Stuart, Lavie Coltrane and her loving family, Andrea Gasse and family here and in New England, Ali and family, Randy and Winnie in New Mexico, Jill Wheaton L, Dr Peter in NY, Dr Rev Bev, Irene M, Bernice, Eileen and family, Dorothy, Angela, Kamryn Elijah, Ode, "Southwest VA", Vicki, Matthew and family, Chris, Lovie, Nancy, Pedro and Our adopted family in BRAZIL, Our North American Black American Bears, The Windcross Convservacy and those beautiful Spanish Mustangs known as "pocket ponies"...


AND for:

Anne, Jim, JADE, Joseph, Cathy Madden, Nathan, and her family., Cindy in NC, Liz, Lee, Molly, Joanie, Jude, COFA, Judi, Ken, Matthew, Nick, Matt, Mark's family and many friends , Pat, Irene, Kevin, Dr D, Deb, Randy, Dr B, Isabelle, Kelsey, Sabrina , Charlie and family, Jean, Julie, Rhonda, Victoria, Mildred, Andi and family, Faith, Denise, Jim, Tom, Joey, Shelby friends and family, Judi, Phylis, Joyce, Gina, Tonya, Beverly and Family, Janeth, Melissa,Virginia, Stacey, Elizabeth, Nita, Gary Siegal, Adrienna, Brian Mawbey, the Boyan Family, Jean R and friend Christy Rider, Victoria and hubbie, Stephen, Gayle, Steph, Chris, Erica, Eileen, John, Mindy, Jack, Susan Werth Becken, her brother Mike and family, Craig James Lightfoot and his family, Kenny, Audrey, Ed Saner, Patty Crowley, Bennie, Gail, Jonathan, Moe, Beverly, Dennis, Peter, Trish, Cynthia, Heidi and her family, Kathy Knights family, Edith Vaughn, Candy, Cynthia, Jenn, Eve, Edith, Jason, Karen, Linda, Joyce, Belinda, Jeanette, Jennifer, Patti, Sandy S, and ...

(Feel free to let me know if you would like to add your/or a friends name to our circle)

Please lift these friends family and loved ones of these people in your hearts and prayers ~

YOU can join us today, you can step up, STAND UP, and can choose to to join with us IN YOUR HEARTS AND MIND AND SOUL.

Feel deeply each beat of your heart knowing that we are here only for this moment and life is fragile, oh how we need to remember that/


We have right here right now to make it right with all living things knowing we are all interconnected n the Universe.


WE HAVE THIS DAY... words and actions get imprinted on the heart, on the nervous systems of those we meet, greet and those we love.


KINDNESS is something that we all can do more with;


it is never ever out of style, out of vogue and its benefits are tremendous.

Enjoy this day as we enjoy the beauty of a butterfly that graces us with its presence on a fabulous day!

Wado!


STOMP with great HOPE and HAPPINESS for this day it is yours, and for that I am grateful, aren't you!










Know that there are some powerful warriors on this page and in the next place along with some Powerful angels ~ and together we have banded together with the energy, love and support to facilitate healing and hope for so many along their journey...


I met three women facing Breast Cancer


on this trip... we spoke, they shared tears and thoughts.


they reminded me of


many I have had as friends and clients and I shared with them some of the gifts I have received by warriors here


in the stories...


then I reminded them of a quote by


Maya Angelou that many of you if not all of you


might just want to write down and put on your mirror


to remind yourself of

while breathing today whether you are woman or man:

 ”Our lives improve only when we take chances - and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves.” —Walter Anderson

and for that I hope you feel great connection in times of sorrow, confusion, isolation, and happiness; knowing we are all connected in the great circle of life~


Whatever it is,


get out there and find what you need to fight it,


to stare life in the face


and to


know

YOu are a warrior.

breathe friends,


YOU MUST REMEMBER TO BREATHE


The fire is burning brightly, the embers are hot and the sage is drifting into the air, with prayers being sent to all in the prayer bowl and many who are not. You know who you are and you are being thought of ...


That is the HOPE in Healing Heartaches ~


,

God Bless the USA and her people.

"Experience is not what happens to you; it is what you do with what happens to you."

~ Aldous Huxley


Walk in Beauty,


DRSES

http://www.drsherryeshowalter.com/

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