Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Mornin' Memories




My Granny: June 3 Born ~ Feb 23
Stepped To The Other Side,
Now Dancing In The Lights


The comments of yesterday were wonderful, uplifting and just came coming! Olivia is almost as tickled as her Mom Joan that her picture was a favorite! And oh how
I love this picture of me & Granny, glad you do too!

Happy Birthday to my hero, who soars like an Eagle up North and works at Mary Washington Hospital... Recently during the snow storm she even stayed there in a patient room over the week-end ... NO she wasn't a patient, she is just that daggone dedicated! She is in Healing Heartaches (alot)  ... Who is she? Be sure and say Happy Birthday to ______ when you comment. Can you imagine? I just knew she would be there, even sent her a text saying, "So, are you in room #302 during the snow storm oh great leader?" haha  Happy Birthday my dear friend! What a woman, what a leader, what a wife, Mother, Friend, daughter and inspiration you are to so many ~

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Thoughts on grief and hope and healing this mornin!

Those feelings of grief/loss can awaken priorities . . . make folks think beyond their familiar awareness while forcing us to stand on new and often unfamiliar ground!
There are enormously important things within all of us, things shared and kindred to our souls; family, friends, a love of music, sunny days, thunder/lightning, books (know of any that you particularly love heehe), trees, butterflies, healing rituals and dolphins are but a few that come to mind!

When we are once able to discover what is within, finding our body-mind-spirit connection, we find the ability to connect with ourselves and those in our world differently than ever before. We choose differently than ever thought possible before!
And so it is good... Different but good!

The invisible threads of all that connect us become visible to our hearts, to our thoughts, to our core.  We are able to give without thoughts of return, to offer and provide a way of goodness, and receive more than ever before.
We are responsible for the making of who we are personally and who we want to be. Each of us will hopefully find contentment, will experience awe, find our truths along the path, have our first experience of room service, while participating in our bliss our joys and our happiness.

We are a part of our Elders, a part of the Earth, a part of the Heavens, one with every living thing. Because of this we are reminded that we are alive and that we are capable of giving and receiving love,
if we choose to.

The precious and the dear truth is that we love, have loved and have and are loved!

Although grief has changed life as we knew it, taken us beyond that which was familiar, that which was comfortable and that which we knew and honored as our life... we are different now and we are still capable of love and still loved by those who have died. They are but a heart beat away, still with us always. Oh yes, we will always miss them, always miss those laughs, that touch, and that specialness that no one no one else in the world has... That is why we are each such unique creations remember?

"The Cherokee people stand upon new ground. Let us hope the clouds which overspread the land will be dispersed, and that we shall prosper as we never before have done" (Chief John Ross, Oct. 1861)


Looking like rain here in sunny Florida today! Wishing you rainbows wherever you are and whatever you are doing to make yours the best day possible!  Remember what Granny says,
"Hold your head up high even when your butt is draggin' the ground" haha

Walk In Beauty,


DRSES
author of

Healing Heartaches, Stories of Loss and Life


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 Lastly, if you live in Apex NC, there is a book club getting ready to kick off called, "Healing Heartaches" at your local Borders! Good job Linda and best wishes to you! You can also now write a review of Healing Heartaches at http://www.borders.com/

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that's it!








13 comments:

Tonya Mae said...

Hey, I live in Holly Springs, NC (the town next to Apex)!

Linda said...

Hi Tonya Mae,

My son lives in Holly Springs...it's 10 minutes from here. I moved to NC to live closer to him.

Know you are closer in age to my son, but Cancer, Grief, and Pain does not discriminate!
Sure would love to meet you. You helped me to say CANCER SUCKS! GRIEVING SUCKS! And I will do whatever I can to help.

The photo of Granny and Sherry shows closeness. They are not afraid to touch or get close. Let us invite others to be closer to us in our journey....and we are never done journeying...

Oh, Tonya Mae, I have been wanting my first tattoo for years...so if you know someone in this area or are willing to help me out, let me know. I'm only minutes from you if you want to talk. When I'm not talking or writing, I can also listen.

Think you are the one who is an advocate for those vaccines. My young 2nd cousin...is going in for her 3rd biopsy and her mother wished she knew about those vaccines.

Blessings to all!

Linda said...

The above blog speaks about grief taking us beyond "that which was familiar." It talks about "standing on new ground." After meditating on it while exercising....What is more familiar than your NAME. You have been called your name or nicknames since birth!

My thought for the day ~ as a result of the book and/or blogs has anyone besides me given themselves a Native American name or renamed themselves?

Oh...there is great power in renaming oneself. Linda had a bit of difficulty accepting the universe giving me the opportunity to speak at a board meeting about Healing Heartaches. However, She-Who-Is-Not-Alone is now officially on the agenda.
Since I live in Apex, which happens to be the highest point between Virginia & Florida...I may aim high, and just challenge my whole town to read the book.

Oh...you can have lots of names...Sherry can be the Comforter, the Guardian, DRSES, or sometimes DYS. Then there is COB, Red, and Matza-Ball. Today's Challenge...rename yourself!

DrSES said...

My Goodness.... two readers in the same area who may just be participating in the start of a "HEALING HEARTACHES BOOK CLUB AT BORDERS IN APEX NC" WOW!!!
However... no guesses from the book on who is having a birthday today? oh my~!!~~ I am rather surprised, but maybe it was the joy of finding that the circle is not so large after all~

Linda, if indeed you are to challenge the whole town, be sure and order from http://www.healingheartaches.com
and we will work out the bulk shipping for you~!

I love the claiming a name idea~ so much healing appears to be presenting itself from the work being done through this vessel. So much thought, meditation, energy across the wireless ways of healing ways and the winds of prayer and intention of purposeful mindfulness.

Ah... and I say to myself.... "what a wonderful world"

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday to Eileen!

We hope you have had a wonderful birthday!
What a great reason to go out and buy ourselves a cake...to celebrate Eileen's Birthday! Thank you for being Sherry's hero and friend. That is a tremendous gift.

Here's to eating cake and claiming names!

And...let's not forget Granny, the inspiration for the book. Pinto beans, fried potatoes, and cornbread....then cake. My piece will be a "whole lot."

Angie said...

Great blog as always.....
RIP Granny, Can't believe you have been gone for 11 years, I miss you terribly and Happy Birthday to my Daddy. Today he would have been 71 and how I miss him so......But knowing he, Granny, my brother Todd and so many others are watching over me helps me get through the rough days. And reading my Cousins daily blogs also helps me when I am feeling blue.
Thanks to Linda in NC for getting a book club started and I wish you the best of luck.
Happy Birthday to Eileen~~~
Luv Ya Cuz "Whole Lots"

Anonymous said...

Well, I had, KNEW the answer to it, but Angie blew it for me! Happy Heavenly Birthday Granny, You continue to bring a tear, laugh, howl and life to us here on this earth, and you are continuously loved by your (and our) Dear Dr. SES... Please keep sending those smoke signals, or kick in the buttocks when we don't get it. Death is not that strong, and your beautiful Sherry has taught us all that! Continue to guide her to where she needs to be to touch the most lives of the many that benefit from her words...and of course the Healing Heartaches book in back and white that have touched lives worldwide!

Anonymous said...

P. S. I saw a butterfly in Florida today, a bright yellow one, and so I sent a Butterfly kiss to my beloved Auntie! That means it was 70 degrees for at least a little while...there IS hope!

Anonymous said...

How wonderful you saw a bright yellow butterfly...There is always hope.

"Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul." ~ Emily Dickinson

Irene said...

Day late and a dollar short, but Sherry, I think of your Granny as you mark the day she
left this world, onto the other.
Great writing above, lots of comments, too.
Re-name........... ah, yes !
Take care all, Irene

Vicki said...

Sherry,
Great blog as always...Interesting...
I thought Irene already had a name!

Anonymous said...

The picture of you and Granny says a million words. The love between the two of you sends messages around the Globe. There are not many people in the World who have experienced the love you all had and still have, the connection will go on forever and she will forever be with you and all of the people who loved her and you. Seeing the picture reminds me of the love I had for my Granny. It brought back the memories and the heart ache that never goes away. There is seldom a day that goes by that the heart does not ache for her. I talk to her, I walk with her and most of all I talk to my friends about her and her life. It is a story in itself. There is a quote she always had was We are Two Peas in a Pod and my answer was you are two pi--es on a pot. Oh what we would give for one more shake of that finger to what we did or did not do and that wonderful sense of humor. She left behind big shoes that we would love to fill to make her happy and proud. Love will never die, the ache will live for her. Love while you can and hugs to all.

Anonymous said...

You know, yesterday I was afraid to say in the comments hope you are doing something good for you, Sherry on the day your Granny died. I hope you are doing what ever you need to do. I hope you are putting Granny and you before others. Not afraid to say it today. Think the words are better becase of the krumpled kleeenx.