Friday, April 22, 2011

Mary Labyak ~ Honored with the National Hospice Architect Award!

Mary Labyak
"Grand Dame of the Hospice World"
Honored at the
National Hospice Gala
April 8, 2011
 My old friend Mary
Received the
Hospice Architect Award!!!

Congratulations Mary,
a pioneer of the hospice movement, a Social Worker,
a leader and visionary ... and the press release from the
National Hospice Foundation read like this:

One of America’s most accomplished hospice executives, Mary Labyak, will receive the
Healthcare Architect Award from the National Hospice Foundation.
It will be presented at the seventh annual NHF gala on April 8, 2011.

A social worker by training and a patient advocate by nature, Labyak began her work in end-of-life care in 1977 as a volunteer for a small, fledgling hospice. Since 1980, she has served as its leader, transforming it from a small, “typical” hospice to Suncoast Hospice, one of the most recognized and respected end-of-life care organizations in the country.
(Suncoast Hospice used to be called, "The Hospice of The Florida Suncoast) for those that don't know it was changed recently!


Suncoast Hospice cares for thousands of people a day. Under Labyak’s leadership, the hospice has expanded its services to include advance care planning and education, high specialized pediatric palliative care, pain and symptom management consultations, and much more.


Labyak’s leadership extends to the national level. She currently serves as the chair of the NHF board of trustees and co-chair of the Capital Campaign for the National Center for Care at the End of Life. In the past, she chaired NHPCO’s board of directors and has served on many NHPCO committees.


“Of the many skilled and accomplished leaders in our field, Mary rises to the top for her longstanding commitment to end-of-life care. The numerous innovations she has implemented in her own program make Suncoast Hospice one of the most admired hospices in the country,” Said J. Donald Schumacher, NHF president and CEO.


“Those who have worked closely with Mary know that when she is conceptualizing a project, she likes to illustrate her thinking by drawing circles. The patient and family are always at the center,” Schumacher noted. “Her work demonstrates that you can be creative and innovative, taking programs in new directions and be successful. They key is to act like Mary Labyak, always keeping the patient and family foremost.”


NHF’s Healthcare Architect Award recognizes individuals who have made a significant impact in the delivery and understandings of hospice and palliative care. Honorees have shaped programs, developed initiatives, and raised awareness, enhancing the provision of quality end-of-life care with greater access for all. It is through their daily mission that NHF’s vision of a world filled with the best care humankind can offer will become a reality.
Last year, this award was given posthumously to Senator Edward Kennedy, in recognition of his work as an early advocate for hospice.
That's me,
Taft Abras (a wonderful man) and
Mary
Taft is the rose between to ole' hospice dames I'm thinkin!
Better that than The Rose standing between two thorns right?

I must tell you,
Mary Labyak, is quite a woman something she...
and the part of her drawing in circles, thinking in circles,
always makes me laugh...
Life is indeed a circle;
as everything we do is in circles you know...
seasons, cycles, birds build their nests in circles,
the medicine wheel is a circle
Indians view all in circles
and the family is a circle
Hurricanes are circles as well
and
sometimes folks can even manage to lose their way
running in circles I have found out!
so
only goes to figure that Mary would see and draw all that she has done in circles as well.
Ah, we go back many many moons
Mary and I
and
 she is indeed to be recognized as one of the great leaders of the hospice world
and quite a grand dame she is.
AND
funny how my heroes seem to be those Hospice pioneers
thank you > Wado,  Mary.

People used to laugh at me when I would tell them,
"I could just sit and listen to Mary talk all day long,
I just love her voice and presence".


Well, there you go then... Mary Labyak
the woman who had me at hello
more years ago than I can count
I'm thinkin of you Mary
and
I thank you
but then again those who have read
HEALING HEARTACHES
know how I have always felt about
this grand dame of the hospice world
who thinks in circles!
Reaching out,
TAKING A STAND
and
Making HOSPICE
about LIFE
I also hold a very sacred space in my heart
for
Taft, a brilliant and lovely man he is.

Mary, many others in the world of hospice have been taught by the best... we've been taught by those we have been honored to walk with along the journey of end of life care; those patients and the folks that love them.
They are the true experts, and they are the ones who
have really taught us, have made us better along the way.
"We cannot be satisfied to only take care of people at the end of their lives, we must get involved much earlier in  their lives earlier" Mary most eloquently stated when speaking to all at the gala... now if folks just would get that deep in their nervous systems and act on those words I'm thinking...
Just a phone call, a card, just to reach out and let someone know they are cared about cost nothing but gives so much in this world and those who live their lives during times of profound stress, angst, suffering along with such robust and great times as well.
Mary said it quite well... We must care deeply within the circle
earlier throughout the lives of all people.

If you want to step outside of self, and get involved in the greater circle and enrich your own circle:
call your local hospice
and
make a difference in your community, which will expand your circle and that of our worlds!
HOSPICE is about life!
National Hospice and Palliative Care http://nhpco.org/templates/1/homepage.cfm
to find out where your local hospice is!
Everyday is A Gift!
As Mary says:
Life is precious
Life is finite
Life is NOW
Tell those you love that you love them
Tell them that you care NOW
Get Involved in Your life
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IN the early early days, Josefina Magno a brilliant woman in DC, and physician was diagnosed with breast cancer, and she saw first hand the angst that patients and families go through ... she decided to make a difference in that, so she became a woman who then
started a little hospice in Northern VA
a little house that mercy built
HOSPICE
and then started educating doctors to the needs of patients and families
to receive compassionate care
to make patients and families
FIRST in all that is done
to enhance care.
Another grand dame of hospice
which all is built on
and
now is growing.
suffering is suffering
As Mary said, "they bout have to kill ya to cure ya"

I've said it all now, through Patti, and that's all there is to say.

the fire is burning brightly, the embers are hot, the sage is fired up and thoughts are on the wind to all today,
for Mary Labyak and Taft with great gratitude
and to all who enter here.
Walk In Beauty,
DRSES







5 comments:

Irene M said...

Ah, it's a " Good Friday " to speak about
Hospice. Readers know how the Suncoast Hospice impacted my life starting 10 years ago with dear Aunt Maddy, then Mom & Dad.
Dr. SES's tribute and kind words are very touching and true. I am thankful, grateful and strong because of Hospice & Dear Sherry.
They both helped me with HEALING HEARTACHES.
D Y S I am FIRM

Anonymous said...

Dr. SES what a wonderful tribute to a wonderful, loving caring lady. You are blessed to have known her. She is so deserving of every award there is in Hospice. I have never met her but feel as if she is a dear friend one you would want to have for a lifetime. Your other friend you have written so much about thru out the years Eileen is another great lady of Hospice as you are also, Hospice is a great organization, I am a volunter. There are many great ladies in Hospice. I have to say there are people in Hospice that should not be there, but it is like that in any organization. I will not go on about that situation as this tribute to Mary is what it is today and always. As I said I feel like I have walked thru life with her from your words and the words in your book. Keep on keeping it real. God Bless Mary, Dr. SES, Taft and all of the people of our world. God Bless the USA.

Irene M said...

Happy Earth Day to everyone. Where IS everyone ? I am so sorry to hear about the unfortunate auto break in. Just when we think we are safe, let our guard down, or just say I will get it out of the car later, BAM....
Fly in the soup, mounds of phone calls, paper work, worry. SES take your deep breaths.
This, too, shall pass. Take care, Irene

chris said...

what a wonderful tribute to Mary-you are quite the woman yourself Doc..Mary deserves the accolades but so do you. Your circle of life just keeps going and going...
did I miss something? What is Irene talking about?
Happy Easter everyone- I say it now just in case I don't get a chance to get back here until Monday.
Talk to ya soon L&H

DrSES said...

What have I missed:

A break-in, Easter? CHRIS IS BACK TO COMMENT ON THE BLOG?

My mind is reeling.

"yes, we mourn the death of a great woman, a legend, a visionary and a woman of tremendous passion as she walked through this life"
Thank YOU Mary Labyak for all that you were to so many...
Dr Sherry